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82-04-25
REVEREND SUN MYUNG MOON
SPEAKS ON
GOD AND MY HOME
April 25, 1982
Belvedere, America
Translator - Bo Hi Pak
People have always wondered about the fundamental questions of the universe,
and whether or not God exists. In addition, when people recognize that
there must be a Creator of all things, this always brings up the problem
of who created the Creator. This is a great historical question that no
thinker or philosopher has been able to answer.
God's existence is an eternal truth. Then what has God been doing? We
must assume that He is a living God and therefore is constantly in action.
When we think about movement, we wonder what kind of movement God makes.
There are fundamental pulling and pushing motions in the universe, centrifugal
and centripetal forces. When these two coexist, how do they harmonize?
Do they neutralize each other, or contradict each other? We come to the
conclusion that these dual forces exist for give and take action; rather
than clashing head-on and shattering each other, they turn and harmonize.
To recognize this natural truth of the universe helps us understand
God's movement. In order for something to move, it must have two aspects
engaged in give and take. Inside the person of God there are also two complementary
forces of give and take action. In other words, God's give and take action
does not shatter anything but works instead towards complementing and making
oneness.
Plus and minus energies, such as centrifugal and centripetal forces,
have different effects on movement. When something is thrown it always
moves in a curved line. Why doesn't it just shoot out straight? Because
a curved line represents the natural, turning action of the universe.
When the Apollo 11 spaceship went into orbit, its flight path was curved.
We must realize that everything in the universe is involved in some sort
of revolving, circular motion. Every form of creation turns in some fashion.
No individual stands still; each person makes a circular motion in relation
to the rest of the universe. You are independent beings, yet you must harmonize
with the universe.
From this universal principle we can derive God's essence. God is the
core of the universe that initiates action, the first cause of all the
movement of the universe. From that core, movement spreads out. Rotation
needs two elements, a subject and an object. The universal turning action
begins from the core, from a small circle, and spreads to larger and larger
circles, creating a gigantic plus and minus.
For plus and minus to be created horizontally, both must exist in the
vertical plane. As you know, plus repels plus and minus repels minus, but
plus and minus attract each other; this is the basic principle of a motor.
In a motor the motion of plus and minus initiates the turning. Everything
that is created from the core's essence should complement or duplicate
the characteristics or action of the core. God being the center of the
combined forces of subject and object, He is like the generator of the
universal give and take of plus and minus.
Let men represent plus and women minus. There is a core motivation of
men, and everything men possess reflects that core or essence. Likewise
for women. So even when a man moves his eyeball, it does not act on its
own but rather in conjunction with the rest of his body, which reflects
his essence. So the movement of a man's eyeball is distinct from that of
a woman; it differs because the essence is different.
Have you ever compared how laughter and weeping are expressed? They
are extremely different emotional responses and may seem totally unrelated.
Laughter and weeping represent two opposite emotional poles, one plus and
the other minus, so how could they harmonize? The most dramatic kind of
emotional change is intense weeping that suddenly turns into laughter.
Crying and laughter are two opposite poles, so the more rapid the movement
circling between them the more dramatic the effect. Swift transformations
produce more striking results than slow changes. Thus, the faster the shift,
the more dramatic its results.
In the Unification Church we are taught that God exists in dual essentialities.
To make it short, God is subject and object, two extremes harmonized into
one. This is the basic explanation of God's dual essentialities.
Many difficult questions have been raised about the origin and essence
of the universe. A classic question is which came first, the chicken or
the egg. Scientists say that the universe is an assemblage of energy, that
it is nothing more than energy in motion. Is that correct? In a universal
sense, which came first, energy or motion? Or, from another perspective,
which came first, energy or mind and spirit?
Let's consider the source of energy. Do you think that energy suddenly
popped out somewhere, coming down from heaven? In order for energy to be
created, there is a prerequisite: the relationship between the poles of
subject and object, or plus and minus; energy depends on subject and object,
or plus and minus. Thus we can conclude that before action there must be
energy, and before energy there must be subject and object, or plus and
minus.
Let's look at the reasons why people do things. Generally speaking,
when you sing, you do so for the sake of others, not just for yourself.
When you talk, it is to someone else. Your nose generally functions not
to smell yourself but something else. Your ears listen to sounds from outside
yourself Your hands exist to serve someone or something else. None of these
organs or capabilities exists for its own sake; every action you make has
an objective related to somebody else. Isn't that true?
If you are laughing very hard with nobody or nothing nearby, people
will look your way and think you must be crazy. However, to laugh at a
little piece of chalk is justified because that laughter has an object.
This is an extreme example of the principle that no action occurs without
purpose or objective; there must be an object to justify every action.
To wander around with no goal or purpose is just a waste of energy; each
of your actions should have some objective or goal.
Why are you the person you are, with the appearance you have? Do you
just exist for yourself? No. For whom do you exist? Existence is never
just for its own sake but always for somebody else, for a subject or object.
Since this holds true throughout the universe how can you ever say you
want to do something just for your own sake? Such an attitude is contrary
to the universal truth and will surely bring destructive consequences.
So you men acknowledge that you live for others, but for whom? You say
you five for God, but He is too far away; you need to five for somebody
nearby! Men live for women; somebody has dominion over man, and that happens
to be woman.
On the other hand, who has control over women? Men. What is the essence
of the control which men and women have over each other? You say love,
but are you sure it isn't power? All right, since you insist, I surrender
to you! It is love. Love is the only important element in controlling others.
Today is the beginning of Daylight Saving Time, so you lost one hour's
sleep this morning, didn't you? Well, even the birds have to get up earlier
when the sun starts coming up earlier! The female birds chirp to their
mates, and they chirp back. They answer each other immediately. Why? Male
and female respond to each other for some reason, and that reason is love.
The East Garden birds are in love, sending out signals to one another
saying, "Here I am; come and control me with love." This is the essence
of the universe, that all living creatures want to be controlled by the
love of their subject or object.
God also exists in dual essentialities; therefore, even within God there
is the need to be controlled by love. Love and joy complement each other.
When birds search after love, they express the heart of the universe. That
means the core essence of the universe, which is God, is motivated by absolute
love. Do you agree? Absolute love is the essence of the universe, the essence
of God Himself, and the motivation of all creation. In the realm of absolute
love there is no destruction or disharmony.
Why do people long for love? Why do we search after love? To be happy.
I understand that scientists say that the human body consists of at least
40 billion cells. When do these myriad components of your body reach their
peak of action? When you are in love. Love ignites all 40 billion cells
into full action.
When a man comes near a woman all his cells wake up and become fully
activated. When man and woman touch there is an explosion. That is why
our church has a rule that men and women shouldn't get too close, don't
shake hands very much, and certainly don't kiss each other. Why? Because
such actions can make sparks fly prematurely. Scars caused by premature
love have no cure. This is why God gave mankind one strict rule in the
beginning: you are absolutely free to do anything except touch the tree
of the knowledge of good and evil. This was a warning not to misuse love,
to wait until the correct time for its expression.
Love fully activates every cell, and without wasting a moment the cells
harmonize and seek a higher level. Once your cells are energized by love
they want to take off. The power of love is much like the thrust of an
Apollo rocket, lifting you off the ground and propelling you into the orbit
of God's love. You are meant to find eternal harmony in love with God,
but God's love doesn't just stand still. As soon as your love takes off
God's love starts to come down toward you, and you meet each other in the
middle. So God's love and human love are meant to come together and create
a spark, make a dramatic crash. That spark does not cause eternal destruction;
it results in a new, harmonized creation. The fusion of human and divine
love generates something new.
Once such a love core is created, the entire universe is meant to sing
along in its harmony and rhythm. Your every. action is meant to harmonize
with the universal core. Every hair, every cell in your body is meant to
dance together with the universal core. Once you reach that plateau, you
will discover the original ideal world, the absolute and true ideal world.
Thus we can conclude that God created the universe, including human beings
and all things, in order to consummate love.
Let's imagine that I could ask the grass on the lawn why it was created.
Would it answer, "I just like the color green and wanted to see a lot of
it"?
I might ask it how it could be tough enough to survive the harsh winter
cold and grow anew every spring.
Then the grass would say, "Daddy, you don't know why? We know why! You
must know!" The answer of even the little blade of grass is, "I am living
in order to consummate love and receive the love of the universal parents.
I am waiting for the spirit of love."
If anybody can come up with a better answer, please give it to me. How
about Dr. Yoon, the physicist: do you have a better answer? No one can
give a better answer.
What is the ultimate reason for doing anything? Why does a person go
to school, for example? Scholars ultimately seek the fastest route to the
consummation of love. If somebody asks you why you live, you wouldn't say
your purpose is to eat three meals a day; that is not the purpose of living.
The best and most dramatic answer is that we live to consummate the ideal
love of God.
So far, I have spoken about the composition of creation. Action or motion
is preceded by energy, which is preceded by subject and object, or the
give and take between plus and minus. The motivation behind all this is
to consummate love. Therefore, action does not take place unless there
is a plus and minus, or subject and object. Is that true?
Think about it a little more. Someone working an a laboratory tries
to force certain elements to combine harmoniously, but unless they are
meant to come together they won't. When the proper relationship of plus
and minus or subject and object is formed, union will happen.
Each element has either a basic plus or a basic minus characteristic
and can relate in different combinations and form various subject/object
unions. These are the results of different forms of give and take. All
relationships must follow universal law; if they go against that law there
can be no give and take. For example, men and women naturally relate with
each other, but a human being and an animal cannot interact in the same
way. Animals must relate within their own realm.
The major problem in America today could be called the distortion of
the universal rule governing the action of love. There are many kinds of
perversions in the realm of love, such as homosexuality, which are destructive
because they go against the universal principle.
People think of men and women co together in merely physical terms.
Many couples live together for a while and then split up, but to do so
is to deny the four directions of a relationship: north, south, east and
west. You cannot shake off those four directions, because your position
is always related to these axes. For example, in order to determine the
location of an airplane or boat, you cannot refer only to the east and
disregard the west; furthermore, there is always a due north, no matter
what. Unless you take into account all four directions you won't be able
to determine your own position.
The sun rises from the east and goes down in the west. If you refuse
to recognize the west, what will you do when the sun sets? After sunset
it gets dark; when night comes you have to adjust to it. In other words,
you cannot deny the process of the universe. Ask your eyes whether they
like only north and south, or east and west. Your eyes recognize all four
directions; you wouldn't want it to be otherwise.
In spring everything looks beautiful and green, with lots of flowers
blooming. In winter, however, you can experience another kind of beauty;
to ski down the snow-covered mountains is another kind of dramatic activity.
Can you say you love summer but hate autumn? You cannot skip autumn. If
you like only the springtime, how will you manage to survive during the
other three seasons? You cannot avoid them. The person who appreciates
only the spring will eventually alienate all the other seasons; summer,
autumn and winter will want nothing to do with such a limited person. In
order to harmonize with the whole universe you have to experience and love
all four seasons, spring, summer, autumn and winter. Do you follow? Death
means the loss of one's subject of give and take.
When I match you, it is important to bring together complementary elements.
For example, if a very small, cute woman were matched with a small, cute
man it would not produce harmony; the man should be opposite to the woman
- bigger and more masculine, with lots of muscles. Also, a spring-type
person should be joined with an autumn-type person, because in order to
make unity the spring-type person must travel through the summer and the
autumn-type person travel through the winter; thus between them they encompass
all four seasons. Don't you agree that this is ideal? A very dramatic combination
is a tall man and a very short woman, or a fat woman and a man who looks
as thin as a chopstick. Do you think I am just explaining my own concepts,
or is this universal truth? The important thing is to harmonize the extremes.
That kind of harmony is the ideal.
Most of you have a fiancee, but some of you have your own preferences
and think that your fiancee does not match your ideal. A woman with large
eyes might prefer a man with eyes like hers. To think like that is to forget
the most important element in the universe: harmony. Parents with big eyes
might produce children with monstrous eyes! Would that be the ideal? Sometimes
a person with small, narrow eyes is able to penetrate issues and see things
very deeply, while a person with big, wide eyes notices only the surface
of things. So I always try to bring together differing elements. The key
word is universal harmony.
Wherever you travel, you encounter subject/ object relationships and
the four directions. Because you are always in an environment where these
principles operate, you can never deny the subject object relationship
or the four directions.
The Unification Church also operates according to these principles at
all times. Subject and object generate energy, which creates motion and
action. Who is the subject of the Unification Church? It is the very controversial
Reverend Moon. Perhaps you consider me so controversial that you don't
want to have give and take with me, but to do so is to reject your environment,
and it will eventually drive you out; you will be unable to remain. In
the Unification Church, I set the policy and spiritual direction for certain
activities, such as witnessing and fund raising. You might say you like
the Unification Church but not those activities. If you hate to do fund
raising, the activity of the Unification Church will eventually expel you.
Someone with such an attitude is like a stranger or foreigner in the church.
In school, you experienced a certain environment with which you had
to harmonize. Schools have a principal, teachers and students, and the
various relationships among them. You can be comfortable in that academic
atmosphere as long as you follow the rules. Schools exist to provide for
learning. Therefore, if a girl says she goes to school not to learn but
to look at the boys, her attitude is contrary to the school's purpose and
eventually she will be driven away. These processes are a product of universal
law.
We are living in the gigantic environment called the universe, and those
who want to be comfortable within the universe must follow the rules of
the game, the laws of the universe. If not, they will be rejected by the
universe. The universal law is the law of love, and violators of that law
will be expelled by the universe. The most important thing to know and
understand is the nature of the law of love and why and how we practice
it. Why should we be good people and do good deeds instead of evil? Essentially,
because by doing good we harmonize with the universal essence; thus the
universe will recognize that we are not strangers and will protect us.
I am teaching you universal principles because I want you to become
a comfortable member of this universe by following the law of love. I have
always taught you to live for the sake of others and not just for yourself,
because selfishness is your own worst enemy. When you are living for others
you will be embraced and accepted by the universe; thus the unselfish way
of life is the most dramatic and most inspiring.
Let's test whether this principle is correct. Good deeds are always
welcomed wherever you go. You good deeds will be appreciated here in the
United States and even in Moscow. Those who practice true love will be
welcomed in Washington, DC, and also in Moscow. Those who live for others
will be appreciated in Washington, DC, and also in Alaska. Since good deeds
are so highly regarded here on this earth, how are they received in the
spirit world? The same. They play by the same rules in the spirit world.
The teaching of the Unification Church is simple: five for the sake
of others and practice love. Devote yourself to a sacrificial way of life
because it is the one way of life which is totally acceptable, anywhere
in the universe. When you practice this way of life, you will be universally
welcomed here on earth and ultimately in the spirit world as well.
In the American way of life you have been accustomed to eating bread
and butter, but imagine that you were elevated to the spirit world and
could only eat rice 'and hot pepper paste. How would you feel? You would
feel you were living in a foreign place. In a similar way, if you lived
on earth according to a set of rules which did not apply in the spirit
world, you would not be able to enjoy life in the spirit world. My endeavor
here on earth is to transmit to you the reality of the spiritual atmosphere
so that you can learn to live with it comfortably. Then when you enter
the spirit world you will feel totally at home. Instead of getting a stomach
ache because the food is strange, you can have your usual bread and butter
to eat all the time! Since you have already been accustomed to the spiritual
way of life, you will have lots of energy in the spirit world and feel
like doing all sorts of things.
You see what a simple truth the Unification Church is teaching. I am
guiding you how to live according to the spiritual rhythms while we are
here on earth. Having become thoroughly accustomed here to the environment
of the spirit world, you will feel very much at home there. I can teach
you these things because I know the spirit world very well.
Mastering the spiritual environment can be compared to mastering other
disciplines. Let's say you are studying law, working toward a bachelor's
degree, then a master's degree, and finally a doctorate degree in order
to master your field. By the same token I know about the environment where
we will dwell for eternity and I am teaching it to you. When I transmit
that environment to you and you become accustomed to it through self discipline,
you are ready for eternity.
Let's suppose this young man has been pursuing a strange and wild way
of life. If he were to enter spirit world in such a condition he would
find himself completely isolated, without any object for give and take.
The spiritual environment would be completely foreign to him since he did
not live that way while on earth. Do you follow? Then do you welcome my
discipline?
Fund raising is one important aspect of our training. Through it you
learn how to handle persecution and how to care for material things.
I have learned how to adapt to whatever environment I enter. For example,
if I go someplace where everybody is drinking and having fun, I can harmonize
with them even without drinking just by showing lively interest in the
people. I can even speak about God to them. With just a glass of Coca Cola,
I can feel more intoxicated than the others, and they will comment, "How
strange! You are only drinking Coke, but you are enjoying it more than
we are enjoying our wine. What is your secret?" I could tell them, "Your
taste buds get numbed by wine so you can't appreciate how good Coca Cola
tastes. But I really enjoy the taste, so it has made me intoxicated."
If I go to a construction site, I know exactly how to deal with the
laborers and how to do the things that they do. When you go into the laborers'
environment, you must play by their rules. Do you understand? In other
words, wherever you are you can always represent good. The universe protects
a harmonizing person; it is even responsible to protect such a person.
Many religious people feel bound by innumerable laws and restrictions,
but the fact is that once we come to the core truth of the universe and
follow it we can be free. Therefore, in a way, the Unification Church offers
a freer way of life than any other religion.
Consider how free we are to examine other ideas. Established Christian
churches often view us as heretics, and they are even afraid to deal with
us. However, each of you feels comfortable to enter any church and pray
and fellowship with its members. You can be absolutely natural and unafraid
wherever you go, because you are in touch with the core truth of the universe.
When I came to the United States I behaved in a very natural manner
and never got upset by any hostile atmosphere. When I go to Japan I never
consider the past enemy relationship between Korea and Japan; instead,
I transcend those feelings and make myself completely at home in Japan
and love the Japanese people. When I go to Germany, it is the same. Any
new place I visit I always think, "I am coming into a different season,
like going from spring to autumn. I must adapt myself to the changes. No
problem." In other words, I do not feel like a stranger anywhere in this
universe. Everybody everywhere is a part of God's family and creation,
and I can always embrace people wherever I go because I know the universe
is protecting me. My distinguishing characteristic the ability to adjust
immediately to any circumstance.
One extreme example of this adaptability was my response to being imprisoned
in North and South Korea. I didn't tell myself I shouldn't be in such a
place; instead, I became a leader of people no matter where I was. There
are always people to talk to and teach about God, even in jail.
This harmonizing way of life doesn't spring from a shallow perspective;
this ability to make myself at home wherever I go is anchored to the core
truth of the universe. I have walked through life as an absolute subject,
so wherever I have gone, an object has automatically appeared. Don't you
think this is a wonderful way of life?
I know that the core or essence of the universe is God, and He functions
in exactly this fashion. To recognize God is to recognize the spirit world
as well. The spirit world is subject realm and we are living in the object
realm. I know the rules of that subject world.
Everybody needs a home, so don't you think God does too? Why does God
need a home? The answer is simple but true: since we as God's objects need
a home, our subject needs a home too. God needs an object just as we do.
In the Bible Jesus said that when two or three are gathered together in
his name he will be there. Why didn't he say he would be present when one
person prays? Why does God come to two or more people? When a man prays
by himself he might forget about the needs of women and ask just for his
own concerns. God abhors a self-centered prayer, but when a man prays for
God to forget about him and give a blessing to a woman instead, such a
prayer sparks God's interest.
Suppose a devout man and a devout woman pray continuously, each claiming
to need only God. Such a life of faith creates a simple, straight line
between a person and God, but it doesn't allow for circular motion and
harmony; linear motion without harmony does not produce laughter and joy.
Universal truth requires that the ideal always contain at least three points.
Therefore, a woman needs another point, in addition to herself and God.
When a devout woman reaches God, will she turn back toward herself, or
head in man's direction? She is more likely to turn toward the man.
Those who ignore other people will eventually collapse from lack of
energy. In contrast, circular movement is like refueling, because in so
doing you pick up energy. Husband and wife in interaction with God have
increased energy. Joined with your spouse in a circuit of love with God,
your batteries are recharged. You are snappy and bounding with enough energy
to launch you into orbit! The woman is always moving toward her husband's
territory in order to occupy it, and the man is moving toward his wife's
territory - all in order to consummate love. Such a couple inscribes a
gigantic circle in the universe and draws God into the center. In other
words, when a man and woman swap positions in love, God can come down and
dwell in their midst. Such a united couple goes up, and God comes down,
creating all kinds of circular motion.
After establishing a dynamic relationship as three individuals, God,
husband and wife, you are always looking for a fourth point. With such
love, you can consummate your ideal and give meaning to everything. But
without such love, your life is as dry as an autumn leaf, lacking energy
and vitality.
God is the universal plus and universal minus. Plus and minus always
seek their complement. The universal minus comes down to earth searching
for a physical plus, and the universal plus comes down to earth searching
for a physical minus. Since minus repels minus and plus repels plus, the
meeting place for give and take between the spirit world and the physical
world is always a crossing point. When the universal minus comes down in
search of plus energy on earth, it crosses the universal plus coming down
in search of minus energy on earth, creating a beautiful cosmic interaction.
Plus and minus keep pulling on each other. There are two basic kinds
of give and take movement between them, vertical and horizontal, and both
kinds are essential. Vertical and horizontal are brought into focus at
the crossing point where heavenly plus and minus meet earthly plus and
minus.
From a universal viewpoint, solitary individuals, no matter how great
they may be, are like cripples, unable to truly move forward. Men and women
must t search for each other, because alone they cannot experience true
joy and laughter. A man and woman joined together is the center of the
universe.
Your mind is the vertical element and your body the horizontal element.
Within your mind you should establish the vertical subject object relationship
and within your body the horizontal sub
ject / object relationship. Your mind is always searching after something
higher and nobler; that is vertical give and take. To recognize your mind
means to recognize your mind's object, since without an object for give
and take the mind cannot function. To. recognize your mind is to recognize
the existence of subject and object in the invisible world. Then who is
the subject of your mind? It is the universal mind, or God, the center
or essence of love. Your mind longs for absolute love; it constantly searches
for a higher perfection of love. It is amazing the strange internal excitement
people feel upon joining the Unification Church! Your mind just wants to
pursue the church. School no longer seems appealing; your job no longer
is interesting; you just want to go this direction and hear more about
the church and see True Parents. Why? It is the magnetic pull of universal
love.
However, you cannot experience fulfillment just through a vertical relationship
with God. God also created the horizontal world in which you must have
loving give and take as men and women, subject and object. Your vertical
give and take, combined with the horizontal give and take, forms a universal
circle, a gigantic sphere. Why do you want to make a gigantic circle? Because
it thrusts you into the realm of eternal life, eternal love, and eternal
perfection, in which you are totally embraced by God.
Think of it: if God is truly almighty, surely He has designed some kind
of eternal life, eternal love, and eternal perfection. To state it another
way, even the almighty God couldn't find a better topic than ours this
morning! God is listening to what I am saying and He is responding, "Amen!"
When you live in this manner, inscribing such a gigantic circle, every
creature you encounter win respond "Amen!" to you. The grass will say "Amen"
when you step on it. You can touch a tree and it will respond, "Amen."
You can pick a flower and it will say, "Amen."
This morning we have covered a great deal of material. I have spoken
about the essence of the universal and the core of existence. There is
a gigantic universe, and each human being is a small universe; we are the
microcosm of the macrocosm. The microcosm corresponds to the macrocosm;
the core of each is love.
Let's say this side of the blackboard represents woman, the minus element,
and the other side represents man, the plus element. If the man and woman
each have perfect vertical relationships, by what power can the two be
united? What will bring the two together, from bottom to top? What kind
of glue can you use? Diamonds? Power? Knowledge? You say love, true love,
and you are right: the glue is love. But does this love-glue work only
in the twentieth century and not in the first or thirtieth century? No,
love-glue holds throughout eternity.
Let's consider why men and women need to be united in the first place.
Men and women joined together form a gigantic plus and minus. Vertically,
they create an enormous spiritual plus and minus, and horizontally, a physical
plus and minus, together forming one gigantic revolving circle. Perfected
men and women who are united vertically and horizontally create a vast
revolving circle, and their perfected plus and minus has give and take
with the plus and minus of God.
When you establish your give and take with God's universal love, He
comes down to live within you. When God dwells within you, you experience
perfection. The man draws the woman towards him and the woman draws the
man towards her, each inviting the other to move closer. As plus and minus
approach, does each thrust itself forward in a straight line, or move in
a circular way? Once men and women or plus and minus meet, do they touch
on one side or meet at the center? They join at the center, because that
is where the vertical axis is. You and your spouse should link up at the
midpoint because that is how you become the center of the ideal.
Considering all this, a woman cannot demand that her husband move over
to her position and enter her way of life in order to love her. American
woman tend to sit and wait for the man to open the door for them, like
a chauffeur. Should the Unification Church do things in reverse and have
the women open doors for the men? That would be nice for a change - although
not all the time! When a woman goes to the bathroom and sees that it is
out of toilet paper, does she call out, "Man, come and bring me some tissue"?
For a change, why not have the man sit on the toilet and cry out to the
woman, "Bring me the tissue"? If you are concerned only about your dignity,
you might tell your spouse, "Come and get your own tissue." But if you
are thinking from the perspective of love, you Will be willing to go and
say, "Here is a tissue for you, my dear." Love should be the motivation
for all your actions; then you will experience no complaints but only joy.
Sometimes you might give your spouse a massage. When the one who asks
for the massage does so out of love, and the one who offers it does so
out of love, that is give and take in love. In extending yourself to your
spouse out of love, the two of you meet in the center. When husband and
wife have give and take of such universal love, all the birds will come
and want. to listen to the songs of love pouring out if their house, even
if there are no trees nearby for them to perch upon. I think there are
more birds dwelling in our trees at Belvedere and East Garden than any
other place in Tarrytown because they can see true love being shared. This
morning the birds are out there singing. When you hear them, you should
think, "The birds are calling me; I want to respond to them."
The sun wants to hit Belvedere and East Garden first in the morning
because there is so much love here. Even the spring breezes want to blow
here because all existence heads for the place of greatest love.
People can go about life in two different ways: one person constantly
whistling out of love for God and another living from day to day, just
eating, working and sleeping, existing in animalistic darkness. How different
the two extremes are! What kind of life would you prefer: the life of divine
love or an animalistic existence?
People may say various things about the Moonies, but what do we care,
as long as we are living in a God-centered way and the universe recognizes
us? Who are truly the happiest people? Moonies, right?
Do you like Moonies? Even if I said I didn't like Moonies, as long as
God says He does, you can be proud of your identity, right? You know that
is true.
Actually, today's sermon turned out to be a Principle lecture focusing
on chapter one, the Principle of the Creation. Until I explain to you these
deep truths about the universe, you cannot comprehend them. Would you like
me to write a book on Principle myself? If I did, chapter one alone would
be too thick for you to carry!
There is a most natural conclusion to this principle. The vertical dimension
is the spirit world, and the horizontal dimension is the physical world.
On the horizontal level, there is the Oriental world and the Occidental
world, which engage in give and take through their crossing point. What
power under the sun do you think can unite the Western world and the Eastern
world? Knowledge? Culture? Love? You answer love, but what kind of love?
True and absolute love. Absolute means always present, never missing for
a moment. Absolute means night or morning, any time, any place. Even when
you are alone, you are still living in absolute love. Whether at school,
at home, or out in society, you dwell in absolute love.
When you peel off the skin of a seed, you find two parts inside. The
outer part, or the wrapping, represents God and the universe; inside it
you find plus and minus. The potential of life lies in that seed, but that
potential is not activated until some vertical power operates from the
outside. The horizontal atmosphere also must add some elements for growth.
So the seed itself is a small universe. When it is buried inside the soil,
with the proper moisture and temperature, its function can begin. A new
life commences, and inside the seed give and take action takes place in
a circular motion. The essence of life, the embryo, remains dormant and
waiting until the right horizontal conditions are added, when that sleeping
embryo can wake up and start to emerge. Then people see the bud, the sprout.
Thus, in compliance with universal law, harmony is necessary between the
vertical and horizontal dimensions for even the seed to grow.
The little sprout becomes a sapling, which grows into a big tree, which
will blossom, produce flowers, and create more seeds. Thus the new seeds
become another essence of life, completing the cycle of circular motion,
and history goes on. The circle of life which starts from the seed moves
up, blossoms and produces more seeds. Every seed is formed through such
a cycle. This is how life is multiplied. Whoever wants to take a shortcut
instead of following that circle cannot become a good seed.
It may take three years for a tree to create a new seed, but after a
hundred years there are hundreds of seeds. Two centuries later, there are
even more seeds. Are each of these seeds the same or are they totally different?
They are identical because they have all been formed through the same disciplined
cycle and have not deviated one iota.
There is an analogous process in human beings. A person is born, grows
through a certain cycle to maturity, then marries and gives birth to new
life. This is the way human life has continued and multiplied. This cycle
has a certain length which no one can shorten. Within this cycle men and
women meet, unite horizontally as husband and wife, and give birth to children,
completing the cycle. So people are supposed to have children. Without
children a couple feels lonely and unfulfilled, since they are not completing
that cycle. Without completing that cycle you do not feel like you are
fully part of the universe.
Even a bird lays eggs, incubates and hatches them, and brings food to
the hungry chicks' mouths. It is amazing the way they know how to feed
their young. Watching a sparrow feeding its chicks you can feel the close
relationship between people and birds. Children are conceived and carried
by their mother, who nurses them at her breast.
When a Western couple goes to the Orient they are almost always fascinated
by the children. They may not be so interested in the adults they meet,
but the little children with black hair and dark eyes are so cute the visitors
want to squeeze them. Even a negatively-inclined person looks upon his
children with affection. A hungry lion will refrain from killing another
animal if it is a mother nursing its young. Until you have a baby of your
own you cannot know this kind of feeling.
You women here, would you like to have your own children? What about
you men? I thought that Western young people felt they didn't need children;
they just seek the fun life between men and women! That's not true?
The ultimate goal of men and women is to have great children. Even people
who are far from perfect long to have good children, both physically and
spiritually. What are good children? Those who embrace and represent the
universal essence, which is absolute love. I have one big ambition: to
see such good children coming from all the Unification Church men and women.
To have good children, you need to be able to parent them. To be a capable
parent, you have to know how to love nature, the universe, and your fellow
man, as well as how to love God. That is the fundamental principle behind
our fund raising activities in the Unification Church. The last reason
for fund raising is because we need money. The money gained on MIT is not
for yourself but for the sake of the world. You try to gain as much money
as possible for the purpose of world salvation. Like watering seeds in
the soil so they can grow into plants, you earn money and it gets sprinkled
all over the world. When you get married, you can go out and harvest the
results of those seeds you sprinkled all over the world.
Another key to raising your children is the ability to love unselfishly.
For that purpose you go out to the world before marriage, during your three-year
engagement period, and practice loving the world and learning how to care
for other people. Ultimately, you will love your husband and children more
than anybody else, but first you demonstrate your love for your fellow
man-including the strangers on the street and even the people who oppose
you. When you can taste all the persecution and pour out even more love
than before, that is a beautiful thing to behold.
Unification Church members practice loving others not only in preparation
for marriage but after marriage as well in order to create the most exemplary
families before heaven and earth. Once you have been disciplined through
undergoing persecution and still loving your persecutors, you and your
spouse and children will be able to endure any adversity. Even though your
spouse may be unkind to you at times, there is nothing you cannot endure;
compared to the challenges you have overcome in the past, marital problems
will be easier to resolve.
Without such training under adversity, you may be too touchy when you
get together with your spouse. Your spouse may say something just slightly
harsh and you may respond like a firecracker immediately and violently.
Without the above foundation you would have no ability to endure.
The core of love binds the universe together. Marriage is very important,
but you need preparation. In a way, marriage is the bond between the heavenly
kingdom and the earthly kingdom. Marriage is the meeting point between
eternal life and physical life. Husband and wife may start out at quite
a distance from each other, but as they build a marriage the gap between
them gradually narrows until eventually they meet at this one crossing
point. Once you create this loving core, you can expand from it, your love
spiraling out in one direction and then another, becoming wider and wider,
until it covers the entire earth.
According to this principle, you could say that love alone can encompass
the entire universe. Any action centered upon this love is welcomed in
the universe. Nothing centered on this love can be rejected or expelled.
The training ground for this kind of personality is the topic of my message
today, "God and My Home."
Who was Adam? The visible, horizontal God. God in heaven is the vertical
God, but Adam was
the horizontal God. The creating originator is God and the created originator
was Adam. How wonderful that is! In other words, human beings are co-creators
with God.
Vertically, there is the subject God, but He needs an object God. The
horizontal God needs a mate, and Eve is that mate or partner. Another way
of expressing this is that God is the Father and Mother of mankind, the
dual essentialities, and Eve represents the motherliness of God on the
horizontal level while Adam represents the fatherliness of God on the horizontal
level. Through marriage men and women are united, linking the horizontal
father and mother God with the vertical God, creating a home in which every
essence of the universe dwells. This is truly home, sweet home where every
creature can be harmonized. Such a family and such a home is the kernel
of God's ideal for the universe. Such a home is the love-seed for creating
all other creatures. Do you agree with me?
Man is to live with the dignity of God, and woman is to live with the
dignity of the wife of God. Such dignity should characterize your married
life.
When men and women come together it is like two universes joining. The
Western way of life is concerned primarily about the horizontal universe,
eliminating the possibility of the vertical universe entering it. However,
the vertical and horizontal universes must come together, and it is important
to put the proper one first, the vertical. Therefore, you must find the
vertical love first.
I am sure that many of you feel you have gone through much hardship
in the Unification Church, doing so much fund raising, being engaged for
such a long time with no wedding in sight. But such experiences give you
the opportunity to mature and perfect your vertical love. I have been telling
you almost to ignore your fiancee because once you find your vertical love
with God your relationship with your fiancee will automatically develop.
Since the human fall was the failure of human beings to consummate their
vertical love, the first priority of restoration is vertical love. Therefore,
you must learn first to consummate your vertical love and transform fallen
love into something holy. Until you gain that perfected vertical love,
you must not engage in horizontal love; the restoration of vertical love
is the prerequisite for the expression of horizontal love.
Am I speaking the truth? Raise your hands, those who are engaged. How
many of you can say with confidence you have perfected your vertical love?
Whoever dares to get married before perfecting vertical love is like a
heretic before God.
The key point of this morning's sermon is to develop the attitude that
God's house is your house, and your house is God's house. This is the right
topic for the right day. Today is a beautiful spring morning. In weather
like this, surrounded by beautiful flowers and green plants, your mind
tends to be dreamy and your thoughts naturally float toward your fiancee,
wondering how many more days you must wait before I give you the real marriage!
We have touched on some very important points this morning. Our goal
is to create a world in which God and all the creatures of the universe
can smile for the first time. We are like a baseball player hitting a home
run into that world. The sensation of love can be compared to hitting the
ball is hit with your love bat, hearing it spin through the beautiful sky
with the sound of love through the beautiful sky, making a home run. The
echoes of our accomplishments reverberate throughout the world.
One final question: are God's home and our home two different dwellings,
or one and the same? They must be the same. The ultimate goal is for the
seed of divine love to germinate and grow. God's love-seed and human love-seed
must be the same; therefore, our home must be the dwelling place of God.
The love-seed is the God-centered family, the building block of heaven,
and when it is planted it creates the ideal society, nation and world.
Once that love-seed germinates and grows to completion and every flower
has bloomed, that will be the Kingdom of Heaven on earth and thereafter,
in heaven. Amen.
Please concentrate your energies and your thoughts on nurturing the
love-seed within you. The preciousness of this love-seed is greater than
any diamond or even mountain of diamonds; even the marvels of springtime
cannot compare with its beauty. Just to contemplate the prospects of developing
this love-seed can bring more happiness than the free expression of fallen
love. The ultimate goal is for the embryo within the love-seed to germinate
and transform you into a new creature.
Once you consummate this vertical love and once society has been perfected,
it will be all right for couples to kiss in public, and God will be able
to rejoice in such expression of affection. But people in this fallen world
understand nothing about the vertical dimension of love and they just seek
to satisfy their physical drives and desires. Animal-type behavior is abhorred
by God. Some time ago, I visited Miami Beach, Florida, and observed the
young people, those so-called hippies, who live in such a shameless manner.
They kiss and embrace with total abandon on the beach. I counted one couple's
kisses and how long each kiss lasted; one kiss lasted more than 30 minutes.
I almost went and kicked them! To live just for physical sensations is
a virtually unforgivable affront to the universe.
In contrast, we are seeking the eternal spiritual sensations. How different
is the way of life I am teaching you! We are Moonies, and our pride is
the Moonie way of life.
Those of you who can say, "Father, now I understand the truth more deeply.
I am proud to be a Moonie, and I am determined to become a love-seed and
the center of the universe," raise your hand. God bless you.
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