ORDER NUMBER
82-06-13
REVEREND SUN MYUNG MOON
SPEAKS ON
ANALYSIS OF THE PRESENT TIME
AND THE BLESSING
June 13, 1982
Belvedere
Translator - Bo Hi Pak
Throughout history, no religious organization has put as much emphasis
as we do upon the Blessing, or marriage. This is a point of major contrast
between Catholicism and the Unification Church. As you know, the Catholic
Church has always promoted celibacy, while we are strongly promoting marriage.
Other religions have their own concepts about marriage, but generally the
tone is discouraging. One "ample is Buddhism, which exalts celibacy and
discourages married fife.
Most religions have not put as much emphasis as we have upon the family,
national and world levels of existence. They have mainly nurtured spirituality
on an individual basis. They have also emphasized the spiritual aspects
of life over all others. The Unification Church certainly emphasizes the
spiritual aspects of life; we believe in the spiritual world and eternal
life. But that is not all we emphasize. We stress the importance of this
physical life on the earth.
The Unification Church stands alone among all the other religions.
People who look at us from the more common religious point of view think,
"The Unification Church is preoccupied with worldly things. They go out
selling flowers and they are always so busy making money" Many consider
us less spiritual than a religion should be.
On the other hand, those who embrace a secular point of view feel threatened
by our activities. They observe the Unification Church moving into all
different aspects of life-the media, economy, business, publications, and
so forth. According to those people, the Unification Church is very mange
as well as threatening.
The parents of Unification Church members observe that their children
have changed their life styles dramatically and they don't know what to
make of it. When you visit your family and relatives, they feel that you
are somewhat different from the "good old days." The old level of rapport
doesn't quite seem to be there and they sense some sort of gap between
you and them. In the past, you might have spent your time casually voting
your neighbors and relatives, but now you are spending all your time going
out fund raising, knocking on doors for home church and trying to witness
to people. Thus your relatives feel that your involvement in the Unification
Church is very strange.
When Unification Church members go to school, they stand out among
all the other students because their focus is different. Other students
occupy themselves with dating and parties, drinking and smoking; but Unification
Church students have a different life style. Unification Church people
have different interests and values.
When the so-called Moonies gather together, people from all the races
and nationalities freely relate with one another. Other people can clearly
see that the Moonies really like each other. Furthermore the members of
the Unification Church come from every sort of background.
Regardless of their pasts, the members come together on a new basis
as friends.
People think Moonies talk about some strange things. They talk about
the salvation of Korea, and it sounds funny because Korea seems to be doing
nicely. Likewise, Moonies talk about saving America, but most people don't
understand what we are talking about. They even feel offended that we should
say such things. Of course, when the Moonies really get started, we talk
about the salvation of the whole world as well as the universe! We talk
about serving the highest sovereignty and not stopping at any smaller level,
such as the society or nation.
Moonies talk about halting the spread of communism because it is the
worst enemy of God and mankind. Yet, we never talk about "killing the commies"
as some groups have in the past; instead we talk about "saving the commies"
People dunk that what we are saying is incredible.
Looking at the Moonies from the normal, common-sense point of view,
we certainly appear to be a bunch of crazy people! We are talking about
the salvation of the individual, family, tribe, nation, world, universe,
cosmos-we are even talking about the liberation of God! When people hear
these fantastic statements, they are convinced that we must have lost our
minds.
From the viewpoint of most religious people, we are talking about very
strange things as well. We are saying that it is good to break down the
barriers between different denominations and religions and that we should
all come together as one, united religion. That is certainly big talk!
Reverend Moon is claiming that God's will is for all religions to come
together.
Unificationists and Reverend Moon claim that we will unite all different
people as well as eliminate the problems that plague society, such as racism
and cultural barriers. To others it sounds crazy, but to you it is most
wonderful. Do you have the capacity to take on all the persecution of the
world, as well as digest the differences between all the religions and
races? When you go out into the world, persecution assaults you from six
directions, including the vertical directions of up and down. Will you
still continue?
Why are we going this route? We ourselves need to understand why we
must go this way. First of all, this is the historical destiny assigned
to the members of the Unification Church; there is no one else at this
time who can fulfill this responsibility. You are like a soccer ball. No
matter how many times you may be kicked or in what direction, you have
one goal. The more you are kicked, the more exciting and intense the contest.
Furthermore, the more you are kicked, the greater is the chance that you
will go into the goal.
The two team in this soccer match are* God's team and Satan's team.
Which side is taking the offensive in this soccer game? God's side is,
so they should be the hardest-working, busiest team. They should be moving
faster, dashing in one direction and then another. Satan's team is trying
to move in and win the game, so Satan will always initiate the attack.
God's strategy of defense is always being hit then moving into the counteroffensive
position.
On the surface it looks as if God's team is being defeated. However,
the battle has come up to the final championship level. The side of evil
has always attacked the side of goodness first. This is true even in street
fights. Satan's side not only attacks, but it is ruthless and tries to
kill its opponents. Do you think God will take revenge and kill Satan and
his forces? No, that is not God's way.
On the first level of confrontation, Satan inflicted heavy casualties
against God's side, killing many people. Therefore, God could claim a victory
because Satan violated the rules, so God's side could be elevated one step
higher These have been God's tactics-He allows Satan to kill those on His
side. Yet by doing so, Satan violates the Principle, and God and His side
can climb one step higher toward the final victory. Each time Satan strikes
out and kills more on God's side, then God is elevated one step higher.
Step by step, this process has continue. God has not struck back, yet He
is now facing Satan at the level of the final championship.
God's strategy is the opposite of Satan's. Satan Will recognize at
some point that God has come all the way up to the championship battle
without ever killing anyone or even striking back. Satan will hurl the
final challenge to God Himself God's strategy has been to allow Satan to
attack the religious people throughout history; Satan has killed many good
people. At this time the religion of the last days is in position for the
final showdown with Satan.
Reverend Moon has the ambition to put the Unification Church in the
position of the final challengers to Satan and to make the ultimate showdown
with him. As God's champions, we will declare, "God's side has come this
far in history without ever striking back at you, Satan, yet He has claimed
the victory, based upon the Principle. You must have a grudge against God,
Satan, because you think you handed over the victory too easily. So now
you can come against us and do everything you want to do. Come on the individual
level, the family, tribe, national-any level of attack. Do it now, once
and for all !" There must be that final declaration by God's champions.
Likewise, God will declare that such a showdown must be the final one and
Satan will accept it. God will say, "Satan, if you are defeated in this
final battle, you must accept total defeat. You will be finished for eternity
Do you agree?" And Satan will say, "Yes, I agree and promise"
Thus God knows that Satan is approaching his final battle. This is
one battle that God cannot afford to lose, so He needs a real champion.
That real champion is none other than Reverend Sun Myung Moon. Reverend
Moon is the "super soccer ball." Wherever I go, every nation is kicking
me, every society, everyone. That bell has had no idle moments but has
been enduring constant kicking But when I see the goal for God's side,
I just jump in. When Satan kicks me toward his goal, even though be a very
close, this ball goes in the opposite direction and jumps into God's 908L
Since this ball is completely aligned with God's victory, He will not be
able to low the game. When God's side kicks the ball, it goes into God's
goal; and then when Satan kicks it, it turns around and goes into God's
goal again! God can't lose!
In the cosmic "soccer game between God and Satan, the ball is a special
one. As it is kicked around and continues to go toward God's goal all the
time, it starts to grow. It becomes bigger and bigger and heavier and heavier
Pretty soon, when Satan runs up and kicks it breaks his leg! Then he will
be furious and say, "Why is this ball so heavy?" So he will cut the ball
open and discover why it was so heavy-it was fail of Moonies! The more
Satan kicks that ball, the more Moonies there are inside and the stronger
and more united they become. That ball will become more and more substantial,
no matter who lacks it; even if God kicks you, you will be solid.
That special soccer ball which has grown bigger and heavier from being
lacked around will end up in the museum of the world and universe. Does
that make you fed. good? Those of you who have been lacked by the world,
raise your hands please. What is the effect of being kicked? Do you want
to give up in defeat, or do you want to fly like a ball to the highest
heights? I think that you don't want to be kicked like a soccer ball. Is
that correct?
When the ball is being kicked back and forth between God and Satan,
it receives some tremendous blows and looks quite ragged, but it never
bursts. It just continues to go toward the goal. You must be like that
Even though you may look weak or even fragile, you must be able to take
a lot of kicking and never break. Even though somebody steps on you and
completely flattens you, still you must not burst. You just have to spread
out; then as soon as that person releases his foot, you must bounce back
with such energy it knocks him off balance. That is the right way for a
Moonie to be-elastic and always bouncing back.
Even at this time, I am in the position of that soccer ball. As you
know, just the other day I was called into court by a certain judge and
was kicked in all directions. But this ball never burst. They may attack
me but I can claim more victory through that. After I was indicted, my
opponents thought "Finally, Reverend Moon is finished!" But they were very
wrong! While I have been fighting this court battle, I have been doing
many other things. For example, we have been organizing The Washington
Times project; also, we presented the Inchon film at the Cannes Film Festival.
The producer of Inchon held a press conference at Cannes and
declared, "Reverend Moon has a plan to produce a morally elevating, God-centered
movie and spend A $ 1 billion on it:' Everybody was stunned and thought,
"Wasn't Reverend Moon demolished in court recently?" The wealthiest Hollywood
producer wouldn't even think of spending $1 billion on one film,
so many people are talking about Reverend Moon. Even while I am going to
court, people are wondering how I can be doing so many things 11
around the world.
Just when people figured that Reverend Moon's energies
had to be depleted, I declared that we would hold a world-wide Blessing
of 10,000 couples. I will officiate over a wedding of 2,000 couples on
July I at Madison Square
Garden! This is totally incredible to the world, people think
that only a crazy person would try to do these things.
Our activities here in America are not the end of the road.
Even when we go to Moscow, that will not be the end. We will go all the
way to the Heavenly Kingdom, with these activities as our stepping-stones.
After the Washington
Monument rally in 1976, 1 declared that Moscow was our next goal, and
I am sure that the rulers inside the Kremlin were very amused by that.
However, they are not so amused anymore; they are taking Reverend Moon
very seriously now. Billy Graham recently traveled to Russia and
became an unwitting tool of the communist leaders. But Reverend Moon will
not do such a thing; I will challenge them squarely, face to face. I am
sure that once the communists perceive me as a threat to them, they will
want to kill me.
The communists have their own strategy. They are thinking to
take care of Reverend Moon before he ever gets near Moscow. They are saying,
"Lets make sure Reverend Moon never even gets out of the free world; let's
clobber him there."
This court battle has arisen through the political maneuverings of
people who want to dispose of Reverend Moon and finish him.
Thus you must realize that we are engaged in a vicious, intense
battle. Whatever you do as Unification Church members, including martial
arts or boxing, become a champion at it. But we are not pursuing these
forms of fighting in order to behave like gangsters; we are doing these
things for the sake of righteousness and the justice of God.
Will you women stand up for righteousness, too, or will you say
to your husbands, "Oh, my beloved! I don't want to lose you, so don't go
off to the battle!"?
Whenever something is about to blow into your eye, your eye closes
instantly. In that case, your eyes defenses are quicker than any offense.
You must become a person with such defenses, capable of reacting as swiftly
as your eyes.
So far, I have spoken about what Moonies are. Why must you endure
all of your struggles? It is because of the fall of man. Let this blackboard
symbolize the universe. In the center, I will draw two small dots to represent
Adam and Eve. The fall of man, in one sense, was a division between Adam
and Eve, so they could never completely unite. Likewise their family became
divided and the division extended to their tribe. The fall brought division
all the way to the world level.
The eight members of Adam's family became divided. Thus there were
eight different barriers. Within a clan of 100, there are 100 barriers;
between 1,000 people there are 1,000 barriers. This is true all the way
up to the present population of America, so there are 240 million barriers
in this country. Each person lives within his own world with his own barriers.
Who created those barriers, God or Satan?
Look at your body. Is there a barrier and conflict between your eyes
and ears? Consider this example. With your ears, you hear your parents
say, "Don't go to that particular movie," but still your eyes want to see
it. In that case, there is a barrier. Is there a barrier between your mind
and body? Certainly there is. Since you recognize the barrier between your
mind and body, there must also be a barrier between your physical senses
and your spiritual senses. They are not communicating very well.
If a thief steals something, his hand is reaching out even at the same
time his mind is thinking, "I shouldn't do this." Thus there are barriers
within individuals.
What about men and women? They are very different. Women usually enjoy
quieter pastimes, while men like to go out hunting and mountain climbing.
That is a barrier. What about eating habits-are men and women different?
They are also different in the way they dress. When a man has a little
money, he might say, "I can go hungry next week, but tonight I want to
go to a nice restaurant:' A woman might prefer to go hungry so that she
can spend her money on cosmetics or clothing, which she considers more
important. There are a lot of barriers and differences between men and
women.
America is the so-called melting pot of the world, but is it really
true? Are all the different kinds of people here really melted together?
No, there are tremendous barriers between different kinds of people in
America.
Do you think that the ideal society would contain a lot of barriers
between people? What power could break down the barriers between people
and cause them to unite? Many Oriental homes have a low fence around them;
the girls are supposed to stay inside their homes. But when the girls become
teenagers, they are tall enough to look over the fence. Why? They are looking
for boys! Here in the Western world the girls don't have to look over any
fences; they can just freely broadcast their interest at any time and place.
Don't you think that the subtle system in the Orient is more interesting
for the boy-girl relationship?
God has been wanting to break down the barriers between men and women.
He wants to link up people with a "love ladder." Do you think old people,
the grandmothers and grandfathers, would like to climb on such a
love ladder?
That love ladder would link people from every position, beyond race
and culture, beyond age; everybody would welcome it. Since Satan created
the barriers, God has been thinking about how to knock them down.
When two people are very much in love, they don't want any barriers
between them, so they try to break down all of them. They will dig
a hole under any barrier that they can't break down! I visited
Rome and saw the ancient catacombs that were dug underground
by the Christians.
Satan sowed the first seeds of division, and he was the first
criminal. Then Adam and Eve responded to Satan and multiplied that evil.
The motivation of that first act of sin was love. Satan is the author of
false love, while God is the author of true love.
The action of fallen Adam and Eve, the false parents, was the
beginning point of fallen human history. Therefore, we must begin history
again with a new Adam and Eve. In order to turn from falseness to truth,
everything must be done in the opposite way. In order to become a true
Adam and Eve, you must do exactly the opposite from what the fallen Adam
I and Eve did. Satan wanted to elevate himself, so the true Adam and Eve
must be humble and willing to take the lowest position. All the religions,
especially Christianity
have taught man to become sacrificial, humble and meek for this reason.
By going in the opposite direction from Satan, you can stand in the sight
of God.
You cannot come close to God without going in the opposite direction
from Satan. Another important characteristic of Satan is his self-serving
and completely self-centered nature. The opposite is to be unselfish and
self-sacrificing. I know You have resisted me when I tell you that you
should
give everything of yourself for the sake of others. You think that
You will lose what you have and gain nothing, but I want You to know that
You will lose nothing and will gain the most important thing-God. You will
be standing on the side of God and He will be right behind you.
We are now creating the new Adam and Eve, the new families, clan,
societies, nations, and world which are exactly Opposite from the old.
We could say that we are building a new pyramid with the True Parents on
top. The old pyramid was topped by the evil, false parents. How do we go
from
the old pyramid to the new one? Can we break down the barriers by violence
and conflict? No, we cannot. It is only through the power of love that
we can break down the barriers between this world and God's world. That
is because
evil or illicit love brought the fall of man in the beginning.
What is the difference between true love and illicit love? The
difference is in the ownership. They are centered upon totally different
philosophies of life. The person who tries to be humble, meek and sacrificial
is behaving in a totally opposite way from those people under Satan. What
is the goal of love-centered behavior? It is unification, or oneness. Instead
of creating barriers, that kind of behavior creates harmony; through that
kind of give and take, you create circular motion. The world of Satan is
one of confrontation; the Heavenly world is one of give and take.
True unification can only come through God-centered, sacrificial give
and take. Why is this true? That is exactly the opposite way from the satanic
way, which is self-centered and arrogant. Unless we create the God-centered
Adam and Eve, and this type of family, tribe, nation and world, there is
no way we can eliminate the satanic pyramid.
This sounds very good, but the question is whether it is realistically
possible. However, when you begin truly loving others and practicing sacrificial
give and take, you will see 91
for yourself that the barriers will start to break down. When you live
Eke that, you will see that people will trust you and open all the doors
of their hearts to you. They will want to confide in you about their personal
matters. That is clearly an example of the barriers breaking down and the
doors opening up. He who practices the truly sacrificial way of fife will
find himself elevated into the central figure position.
I want you to understand that we are at war, but it is a unique kind
of war. Our weapons are love, service and sacrifice and with those, we
can win. This is truly and wonderful!
This tactic is one sure way to resist and win over persecution. You
can melt persecution by love and sacrificial service for others, with the
goal of unification. Do you think this is possible? What about the German
people? Are they different and not under the same principle? How about
the Anglo-Saxon "ladies and gentlemen"? The same principle applies to all
people.
Reverend Moon has been living by this principle and it has worked.
Look at the way the Korean nation has changed. At first they persecuted
and mistreated me tremendously but I continued to live by the Principle.
Now there is a widespread mood among the nation of Korea that their only
hope is in the guidance of Reverend Moon. Another amazing transformation
has been taking place in Japan. When I first went there, the media tore
me apart, using many cheap and discourteous accusations. But now the Japanese
consider Reverend Moon to be a great person. They are proud to claim him
as an "Oriental man."
Here in America, people are beginning to recognize that Reverend Moon
is the only person who is squarely confronting the communist ideology.
They will soon want to claim Reverend Moon as a "part of the free world,"
and thus a part of them.
I have been walking this one-way street guided by the Principle. Some
people say, "Reverend Moon, why can't you somehow be a little wiser? After
all, you could be sneakier when you present yourself and the Church, since
people are so completely negative against the Unification Church already."
But I cannot do that. I walk a one-way street.
Many people felt threatened when I first came to this country representing
not just the Unification Church of Korea, but the international Unification
movement. Many people can do many things well, but there is one thing that
no one can surpass me in-that is, in the practice of sacrificial, God-centered
love. I have demonstrated clearly that I love America more than I love
Korea. I have served this country first, giving my sacrificial best, because
my goal is unification.
At this time many people are opposing us in America, but soon we shall
become the central religion and ideology. This nation and world will benefit
because of us and will become unified. Both the communists and Reverend
Moon came to this country to wage an offensive battle, but our goals were
entirely different. Communism came to take for its own selfish purposes;
Reverend Moon came to give and serve and create the atmosphere of unity.
With this message, it doesn't matter what people are saying today or tomorrow
or next year Eventually the whole world will become united under God's
love, through this love alone can the world become one. Do you agree with
me?
Let's talk about the terminology of "True Parents," something which
sounds strange to others. When you talk about True Parents, you are automatically
denoting the existence of false parents. What are false parents? The parents
who stand on the side of God are the True Parents; those who stand on Satan's
side are the false parents.
The false parents are found on every level and have expanded to the
tribal, societal, national and worldwide level. What about Mr. Reagan?
What type of "parent" for America is he? Since he is the national sovereign,
he is in the parental position. Do you think it is good that a parent keeps
his position for only four years at a time and then someone else takes
over? No, when you speak of parents, you speak of an eternal, unchanging
quality. Therefore, no one can take the role of True Parents except those
who were assigned by God Himself.
Adam and Eve created the first barriers; therefore, every succeeding
echelon of society had its own barriers. But there is always the live seed
of man's original mind, and through that God will be able to work. The
original mind is not self-centered; it is public-centered and God-centered.
That original mind is the door through which God will be able to penetrate
into the fallen world, Satan's pyramid.
Who are the good people? They are those whose original minds are more
alive than others. The degree of development of the original mind determines
how good a person is. The person who wants to give and serve others the
most is the one whose original mind is most developed. When you serve others,
God can approach you. You must live for the sake of others. The more you
do that, the more easily God can approach you and unite with you.
The original minds of all people in the satanic world are still alive
and hoping to grow. Therefore, the fallen world has hope for restoration.
In order to restore this world, you must have a way of life that is directed
toward the sake of others. You must five for them and serve them sacrificially.
Then you expand that standard.
Now you should understand why the Unification Church is always emphasizing,
over and over again, that you must live for the sake of others. That is
the only way you can expand your own original mind and that of others around
you; that is the only way you can make room for God in this world. When
you are really serving and living for others, you will exercise more freedom
and have more flexibility in this life. You will be accepted by people
around you, and you will encounter fewer and fewer barriers. Through this
life style, God Himself will come and teach you bow to live. He will tell
you, "Please serve and be sacrificial with true love and the victory will
be won." Is this clear to you?
That is why I have been teaching you to Eve for the sake of others
and asking you to follow my example, so that God can come and dwell with
you. You will create the new world for God, and you will be the inheritors
of that new world. You will be passing on true love to your descendants.
Let's suppose that there are ten members of a family living together.
The person who serves the most getting up earliest and working hardest
around the home, is truly living for the sake of others. One person might
go to bed early while another stays up late every night, cooking or cleaning.
Which is the more serving one? The person who wants to serve simply cannot
lie in bed late in the morning or go to bed early at night. That person
will want to sew buttons on the jackets of others or polish their shoes.
Initially such a person will be taken for a fool, but eventually everyone
will come to rely upon him and even bring him their personal problems.
It will only be a matter of time before he learns all the secrets of the
house. Even the master of the house will come to him. Therefore, he will
be the central figure, without a doubt. Is this true or not?
Do you like home church, then? The principle of home church is derived
directly from this. You must pin recognition from the tribe before you
are recognized by the nation; thus your arena is the home church. Unless
you are welcomed by the tribe, you can never expect the nation to welcome
you. For that matter, if you are not even welcomed by your own family,
how can you expect the tribe to welcome you? Is this correct?
The Bible contains a beautiful quotation: "Know the truth, for the
truth shall set you free!' Now you know the truth and you will be freed.
You will become the center of your family, your tribe, your nation; you
will be elevated and promoted in that manna. So now do you understand that
you must live for the sake of others?
The work of God within the fallen world is nothing other than to liberate
man's original mind and expand it. The entire world may say that it is
all right to live just for oneself-, the selfish way of life is always
being promoted. But now God has declared that people must live for the
sake of others.
There are many people from different nationalities working at East
Garden. Some people evaluate themselves according to how long they have
worked there-whether it is five years or whatever-but that makes no difference
whatsoever. There are some people who think, "As long as I am fulfilling
my particular responsibility, then your job has nothing to do with me.
I don't care about anybody else's responsibility." That person may think
he is very clever, but I can see through that sort of thinking With My
Special "true love eyeglasses." I can see the truth within that person.
There are people at East Garden who suddenly snap to attention and try
to call attention to themselves whenever I walk outside the door. But as
soon as I am gone, I know those people relax and take it easy again. The
fallen world may live that way, but we must become different.
The members of the Unification Church are different you look very smart,
with shining and intelligent eyes, yet your deeds seem dumb to others.
The Moonies are going to the lowest levels of society and serving others.
You look smut, while behaving in a seemingly dumb way; but it is not really
dumb. The Moonies are the cure-all for society. People will come to feel
that with a Moonie around, they don't have to worry. Furthermore, the Moonies
are clever and whenever people have a question they can answer it for them.
Perhaps a truck driver will feel fired, so even a small Moonie woman
can come around and drive for him. Ordinarily a tiny woman would not even
want to come near a truck, much less drive one. But for Moonies, doing
something so out of the ordinary is merely natural. liars not all. That
tiny Moonie girl can also drive a bulldozer if she sets her mind to it.
The only reason we do what we do is that nobody else wants to do it. We
do what others hate to do.
I always dress in a humble, inconspicuous way. Wherever I go, I try
to participate in the activities around me, wanting to help however I can.
By practicing this way of life every place I have lived, I learned all
the secrets of the people around me within a few months. What about you?
Would you like to unburden your secrets to me, too? Yes, because you know
you can trust me. I learned the secrets of many people who later became
my enemies but I will never use those secrets against them. Once someone
has trusted me like that, I will never betray him.
Some People have left the church after having told me everything about
themselves. Now they are adversaries of the Unification Church and are
doing many against us. But as soon as that person sees me, he has no strength
to even look me in the eyes. He knows deep within himself that I am righteously
keeping his personal secrets, no matter what
Do you think my teaching has been correct or not? Suppose I tried to
kick you out of the Unification Church what would you do? Would you pack
your luggage and go out the front door, but then sneak in through the back
door?
You know that Satan hates Reverend Moon because Reverend Moon knows
his every secret, so he is helpless in front of me. It is as if I am poking
Satan's eyes, plugging up his ears, zipping up his mouth, stopping his
nose, and binding his arms and legs. The ironic thing is that by opposing
me so much, Satan is actually helping me. I devised the strategy by which
I cannot lose. As I already mentioned, it doesn't matter who kicks the
ball-whether it is Satan or God-it will always go to the goal. Now Satan
is in a dilemma.
Did you make the right decision by leaving the secular world and joining
the Unification Church? What land of a group are you in- -a very dramatic
and joyful one? You can find everything you could want in the Unification
Church. If you are looking for excitement, here it is. If you want to satisfy
all your curiosity, you can do it hem When people first join the Unification
Church, this way of life appears to be complicated and confusing. But once
you penetrate into the heart of this life-style, you discover that the
truth is very simple. We are simply striving to live sacrificially for
the sake of others; period.
The satanic world cannot survive in the face of these tactics. I want
you to understand that we are living in the midst of hostile territory
known as the secular world. Our mission is like that of high-level spies
for Heaven. There are other spies in this land, but they have a different
method and goal. They seek to corrupt and ultimately destroy the country.
But the Heavenly spy goes into the hostile land for a different purpose-to
save it. Satan is saying that Reverend Moon is an intruder in this country,
trying to hurt and deprive this country, eventually to destroy it. But
actually I have come like a Heavenly spy with the mission of saving this
nation. I did not come here to mislead young people but to direct them
to the way of ultimate life.
Why is it that Reverend Moon and the Unification Church's ideology
will ultimately succeed, while the communist ideology, which is so powerful
today, will ultimately crumble? It is because the communists are talking
about a different Utopia. They say that the individual must reject his
family, his society and nation and struggle against them. But Reverend
Moon is talking about a Utopia that is centered upon God. In order to achieve
it, the individual does not reject anyone. Instead he must become a restored
individual and work to restore his family, tribe, nation and world with
love. On every level, you must intensify your love. More than your family,
you must serve and love your tribe; more than your tribe, you must love
your nation. Rather than rejecting them, you must make them whole. This
is truly an ideology of building, not destroying.
When a person accepts a certain system, such as democracy, he normally
rejects any other, including the aristocratic or monarchic systems. But
the Unification Church does not reject or deny the validity of any of these.
We can appreciate the good points of every system. We can even accept communism,
as long as God is placed at the center. This is a truly dramatic way of
life.
We are climbing the ladder to restoration. At each higher rung, we
must intensify our love. Love your neighbors and your family; then love
your country more than that; love your world more than your country Love
God more than your world. That is the way.
According to your culture, you may enjoy eating bread, butter, and
cheese, while Korean people enjoy rice, hot pepper paste and kimchee. Do
you like kimchee? Can you believe that true love can come out of the kimchee
and rice culture? Or must it arise from the cheese, bread and butter culture?
True love is the same in any culture.
Perhaps there are ten different nationalities and cultures represented
within a single household. Then the cook would have to cook ten different
meals for them. But every one of them will appreciate and respond to the
same true love. The cook would be motivated by true love and thus would
feel joyful to work so hard for others.
Is true love a different experience for white people than for black
people? No, it is the same. The Unification Church is a collection of all
different cultures. I would enjoy seeing the Japanese members come to Belvedere
dressed in their native costumes, likewise, the members from India and
other countries. That is fine. The important common element that we share
is true love. True love transcends all the aspects of culture, such as
eating habits and customs. True love will unite the world.
If you American people love your country with true love, you will become
known as a true patriot. Often those people who embrace a worldwide ideology
will deny the value of the nation, but we do not do that. We want to embrace
all nationalities and in that way achieve harmony of the world. When we
pray, we all pray in our different languages, but we are praying with the
same common love. Thus we are all praying about the same thing.
There is no other way to break down the barriers of the fallen world
except through true love. By behaving in a sacrificial, serving way, the
end result will be the unification of the world.
Isn't God smart to come up with this plan? Think about it-can you imagine
any other way to unite the world except by true love? I thought about it,
pondering whether there was any other way But the universe is centered
upon the truth of the parent/child relationship-God and mankind. When you
live this way, doing home church and serving other people, you are taking
the parental position to your tribe.
Once the unification of the world has come, those who helped to bring
it about will be in the parental positions. That is the most holy position.
You must be able to demonstrate how true parents five. Such parents are
the epitome of the God-centered way of fife; they are the ones who love
the children with truly unselfish hearts. You will know you are doing the
right thing when people consider you to be like a parent to them.
Reverend Moon looks at America in the role of parent. Every effort
I am making in this country is motivated out of the parental heart. Therefore,
whatever happens to this nation, the bond of Father/child cannot be broken
between us. The True Parents are the parents of restored true love. They
are loved and embraced by the family and, likewise, they are received and
loved by the tribe. They are also received by the nation and the world.
Ultimately they are connected with the heart of God, winch creates the
vertical line of connection with the rest of the universe. Thus the True
Parents become the axis of the restored world, from the heart of God all
the way down to the individual. Every level of the world has the same center
The God-centered parents become the center of the family, tribe, nation,
world, cosmos, and the entire spirit world. What is home church? It is
actually the microcosm of the world. Whatever you do on the tribal level
of your home church area, you have the qualification to see it on the level
of the world.
Your home church area is the tribal level where you can practice your
own parenthood. It is like your school to learn how to be a good parent.
If you want to progress to the national level, you must establish your
parental position on the tribal level. You will form your own tribes-the
Smiths, the Michaels, the Thomases. To form a nation, all the tribes will
come together and the perfected, parental tribes will join together as
the foundation for the nation.
As an example, let's look at Korea with a population of 40 million.
If every tribe had its own perfected parent, then the restoration of the
nation would already be accomplished. When you are successful in the creation
of your Abel tribe, the Cain tribe will be restored automatically. For
example, when we restore the free world, the restoration of the communist
world will come about automatically.
What must be the center or the backbone of these things? It is the
parental tradition, centered upon sacrificially living for the sake of
others. At each stage, centered upon the parents, your scope becomes wider
and wider, representing your growth. Parental love should be expanded from
the family level to the tribal level, the tribal to the national level,
and so forth, so that a horizontal base can be achieved, not just a vertical
one.
In the spiritual center of America are the True Parents and their family;
surrounding them is the Unification Church the Abel layer, and finally
there is the rest of society. Those three layers must become united into
one. The Cain world should unite with Abel; the Abel world should unite
with the True Parents' family; in this way all three layers become united.
Also, the three different ages in the vertical relationship must become
united-that is, the Old Testament era, the New Testament era, and the Completed
Testament era. Thus we will have both the vertical and the horizontal lines
united.
In order for those lines to be fulfilled, they must consist of subject
and object pairs. That is why we need marriage. We could say that on the
left side of the central fine is the men's world; but if we only have the
men's world, then we are crippled. We need both sides. Therefore, we need
the women's world on the right side. Do you think that men and women need
only each other? No, they each need to fulfill their relationship with
every level of existence, on both the horizontal and vertical level. Otherwise,
they do not make room for their restoration.
Some couples claim that they don't want to worry about the rest of
the world but only each other. They just want to enjoy each other's company,
but that will never work. Why not? God's goal is to link together every
level of human society, so He wants people to inherit His tradition on
the worldwide basis, not just on the level of the couple. The isolated
couple does not interest God at all.
How about you? Do you only cam about your own couple? No, our marriages
are not just for the benefit of one man and one woman. Our marriages are
for the sake of the entire world. Why do you come to me and say, "Father,
I want you to find my mate for me"? You could go out and marry anyone you
wanted and do whatever you want, yet you come to me. You could say, "I
want to make my own decisions and rule my own fife. My spiritual adviser
isn't going to do that for me." Why don't you say that to me? You want
to receive the inheritance on every level.
The True Parents have won the battle on every level, knocking down
all barriers and gaining total freedom. When you inherit that tradition,
you can also inherit that freedom. Within the Unification Church there
are people from virtually every religion-Catholic, Protestant, Buddhist,
Moslem. We have a woman here today who is a Buddhist monk and has come
to join us in our worship service. We are bringing together all different
ethnic and cultural groups.
We Are even melting enemies into unity The relationship between many
French and German people a like cab and dogs. Do you dunk such people would
even think of marrying each other? For many French and German people, marrying
each other would just be impossible, but within the Unification Church
it happens. We are bringing together religions, races, and enemy nations.
Do you think this is something Reverend Moon is going to do, or haven't
I already done it? I have also opened up the doors between Korea, Japan,
and the United States.
The most fundamental problems of life me being solved through our marriages.
When black parents who hate white people see their son marrying a white
girl, they may be stunned and feel that the worst possible thing has happened!
The same is true with some white parents. But once those parents observe
that white and black couple loving each other, having children and creating
a beautiful family, they start to change. They my not completely change
and forgive their children within their lifetimes, but at the moment of
their deaths, when they are facing spirit world, they will forgive you!
They will forget everything but their love for you.
You know that the True Parents have the ability to unite races, religions,
and enemies, and you want to inherit their total tradition. In order to
do that, you must link yourself to the True Parents. What better way is
there to do that than to have them pick your marriage partner for you?
When I give you the Blessing, I am giving it on the worldwide foundation;
thus you inherit that foundation. You gain freedom from all the barriers
in just one stroke. You don't have to break down all those barriers on
your own because True Parents have already done it.
Within your own lifetime, all you have to do is expand this vertical
foundation to the horizontal level. The individual becomes a family, the
family becomes a tribe, the tribe becomes a nation, the nation becomes
the world. Your mission is to do this during this second three seven-year
course. You receive the True Parent's spirit and then you expand it horizontally.
That is why we have the dispensation of home church as our method to accomplish
that expansion.
Within the home church, you have the individual, family, tribe, Cain
and Abel, and all the different stages that must be restored on the horizontal
level. When you are successful on the tribal level, that would link you
to the nation; you would be linked to the world automatically.
During these three seven-year courses, we must expand the vertical
dispensation to the horizontal level. Without the fall of Adam and Eve,
there would not have been any barriers at all. People would have been able
to grow naturally to every level, from tribe, nation, to the world. They
would have created the circuit between the individual to the world, and
everything would have flowed smoothly. That was how it was supposed to
be.
Since we do not have this kind of world, we must talk about restoration.
This world needs True Parents in order to be restored into that original
world. In order to move from the fallen world into the restored one, our
methods must be exactly opposite from satanic methods. Whatever Satan will
not do, God's people will do. That is what we call restoration by indemnity.
Have you paid the indemnity for all the different levels? No, but the
True Father has done that. I have cut through the jungle and built for
you a superhighway. All you have to do is inherit that victory. Therefore,
every husband and wife must be totally united with the True Parents. The
original fall occurred when Adam and Eve did not obey their parent, God.
So today, in order to restore that fall, husband and wife must obey the
True Parents. God has been working through the True Parents, putting together
the broken pieces of this world, like a Heavenly welder.
Each man must become a branch of True Father and each woman must become
a branch of True Mother. Would you ever think of trying to prevent God
from coming into you? Wouldn't you want to totally demolish all barriers
between you and God? God wants to come to you in order to love you, not
to take anything away from you. The same is true of the True Parents. They
come to you to love and serve you; they come in God's heart. The True Parents
are bringing God's inheritance to you; thus how could you ever try to prevent
them from coming to you?
If you say, "Don't touch me!" to True Parents, you are resisting God
Himself. Parents with a new baby will touch him everywhere; that baby doesn't
resist them. Parents are entitled to touch, not only the baby's physical
body but also the mind and heart of that baby. There is no barrier between
them.
Imagine if True Parents knocked on your door at midnight and you and
your spouse were in bed together. Would you shout, "Please come back tomorrow
morning!"? The appropriate response would be to run and open the door,
even if you were completely unprepared, and just welcome your Parents.
When a person is totally joyful, he will forget about himself. That is
the relationship between you and the True Parents-there are no barriers.
The relationship between you and the True Parents should be intimate
and limitless; you can share everything and you can be absolutely one.
You must appreciate the Parents. They have brought a great gift to you;
everything has been given as your inheritance. This is your heritage and
your prestige. Then how can you complain about the spouse the True Parents
gave to you? Can you say, "I would rather disregard your decision and make
my own"?
Some people might feel, "I have the right to choose my own mate and
that is what I intend to do; so, Father, please stay out of it." Is that
the right or wrong frame of mind? After all, you were matched on the authority
of True Parents, but you each had the right to accept or not. I gave you
the chance to make your decision. But can you now say, "I didn't think
about it clearly and now I want to be re-matched"? That means you are denying
your own judgment, denying your partner.
How can you ask to be re-matched? It is impossible. That lies outside
the realm of Principle. You each had the chance to refuse your match, but
once you accepted it, you made a covenant between God, the True Parents,
and yourself. Can you imagine God changing His mind every day? Once you
have made a decision, based on God's recommendation, even if you think
it turned out to be a mistake, it could not be a mistake.
You may not live a particularly happy married life, for one reason
or another, but you should not worry. God has ample ways of repaying you.
God is limitless and almighty. There are millions of ways God can reward
you, for instance through your children, because God rules the realm of
heart. If you are matched two or more times by True Parents and reject
it, then you will feel ashamed before them. Acceptance of your spouse is
an act of faith more than anything else.
Without your doing anything, you have been brought up to the top of
the pyramid of the restored world by the True Parents and have been given
the Blessing. The home church is like one little horizontal dot which represents
the entire pyramid. You are setting the condition in your home church to
claim the rest of the pyramid. God can accept that condition to give you
the rest of the pyramid.
Some people say, "I don't like home church so I'm not going to do it"
They are not actually denying home church itself; they are denying the
basic, fundamental principle behind it. They are actually denying the True
Parents.
Your goal is to stand at the top of the pyramid and receive the Blessing.
In order to get there, you must do home church. You will become true parents
yourselves in your home church area. I have pioneered the worldwide level
and I have experienced worldwide persecution; still I have succeeded. In
your time, you will find that people will welcome you because the persecution
has been so greatly diminished. Compared to what I endured, the persecution
you will receive will be like nothing. Soon the people will completely
welcome you. IN
From the point of victory in home church, you will be able to leap
into the Kingdom of Heaven. That is the place of Adam and Eve, the Garden
of Eden, but you are not just in such a simple place. You have a huge "tail"
or foundation, which will give you the boost to go to the top. It will
not drag you down but will push you up. In order to be pushed up, you must
take the position of parent, loving others with A parental heart.
That is why I said that home church is the base of the Kingdom of Heaven.
Just like launching the Apollo rocket, you must have a launching pad-your
home church-to be launched into the Kingdom of Heaven.
When you go out to lay the foundation of your tribe, look at Jesus'
example. He had twelve apostles. Also there were two families-Joseph's
and Zachariah's. Then there were seventy main disciples. That equals eighty-four
altogether. Thus you need eighty-four people to form your own tribe. In
order to accomplish eighty-four in the next seven years, you need to bring
in one person every month; that is twelve spiritual children per year.
Jesus' crucifixion came because there was no unity between the twelve apostles
and the seventy disciples. Strictly speaking, you should fulfill the eighty-four
spiritual children in order to be eligible to receive the Blessing.
According to the Principle, Noah had three sons. Together with their
wives, including Noah and his wife, there were eight family members. Abraham,
Isaac, and Jacob were three generations; Jacob had twelve sons who created
twelve tribes. There the tribal center was begun. Moses had seventy-two
elders who represented the people on a national foundation. The number
three is included within twelve; twelve is included within seventy-two.
The numbers are all parallel.
Jesus had three major disciples-in the position of Noah's three sons.
That was the restoration of the Adam family in Jesus' time. He gained twelve
apostles in all, including the three, but at the same time Jesus suffered
the Crucifixion due to the betrayal of Judas Iscariot. Thus Jesus could
not fully establish the number seventy-two. However, after the Crucifixion,
the 120 disciples gathered in Mark's upper room to pray and they experienced
the Pentecost. The Holy Spirit came down and the true beginning point of
Christianity occurred. This was on the spiritual national level.
The number 120 is significant. After World War II, when the number
of predominantly Christian nations had grown to more than 120, it signified
that the last days were here. The Messiah comes upon the foundation of
120 Christian nations. The number 360 is a multiple of 120. With each stage
of formation, growth and perfection represented by 120, that equals 360.
The role of the Lord of the Second Advent is to consummate the perfection
of the three Adams. First of all, he comes to restore the original Adam
who fell in the Garden of Eden; secondly, to restore the position of Jesus,
who came as the second Adam; and thirdly, to fulfill the perfection of
the third Adam in the position of the second Messiah.
Jesus' suffering and crucifixion had to be duplicated and paid for
by the Christians. By the same token, when the second Messiah came and
physically suffered through persecution, although he was triumphant in
laying the foundation, certain conditions have to be paid by all the members
of the Unification Church. By sharing in tribulations, you are inheriting
Adam's blessings.
First of all, you must be courageous enough to declare, "I will not
be like the first Adam and lose my vision and faith. I will be better than
Adam. I will maintain my dignity as a man. If any woman tries to tempt
me to eat of the fruit, I will not do it. I will never be the same as Adam
in the Garden of Eden."
You women must declare, I will not be like Eve in the Garden of Eden.
No matter who comes to me, no matter how attractive like the archangel,
I will not listen to him. I will be smarter than that."
Once Adam and Eve get married, can they possibly divorce and marry
again? No, there is no possibility of that. You must determine, I will
never change my partner, no matter what. He/she is my only, God-given partner."
From the experience of the first Adam, you are learning the necessity
of absolute purity. Is that correct? From Jesus' life, you are learning
the necessity of absolute faith. Jesus never had any qualms about obeying
the order of God; he was not the slightest bit weak and he never complained.
From the third Adam, you are learning the necessity of absolute heart and
devotion to God.
Centering upon true love, you must be meek and humble, giving your
life in service to others. Jesus' first teaching was, "Repent, for the
Kingdom of Heaven is at hand." Repentance requires a lot of faith, and
through that condition you can be forgiven by God. Then forgiveness brings
about your restoration. So the first requirement for absolute faith is
repentance. Then, once forgiveness has been given, your salvation begins.
That is the process.
You are given forgiveness by the third Adam. That means you are inheriting
forgiveness for the sin of the first Adam; also, you are inheriting the
foundation of the second Adam. Therefore, you inherit the ability to gain
the true heart from God. The entire world must be brought into the realm
of God through the heart of the True Parents. You must live in their heart.
You must look at the entire world from the parental point of view. That
is what you inherit from the third Adam.
That is why you can go all the way up to the pure Adam and Eve's position.
By learning absolute purity, absolute faith, and absolute heart, you can
stand in the position of pure Adam and Eve and receive the Blessing.
If there had been no fall, there would still be at least 120 nations
in the world, but they would all be living in harmony. Jesus came to fulfill
the dispensation of a world community of at least 120 nations, centering
upon the Roman Empire. At the time of the Second Advent, there is a foundation
of 120 Christian nations. The 120 nations of each era equal 360; therefore,
home church represents the entire dispensation.
What would you teach people in your home church? There are three basic
elements to teach-absolute purity, absolute faith, and absolute heart.
The result would -be unification-not by purity or by faith alone, but by
heart. Heart can unite them all. Thus you must set all the conditions and
pass through all these three stages. Where must you do it? Within the realm
of your 360 homes.
You will live through the entire history of the Bible in your home
church. Therefore, you must receive Old Testament type persecution, New
Testament-type persecution and Completed Testament-type. That is inevitable.
The best way to unite your area is to pursue those people who oppose you
the most. Love them and gain their acceptance; overcome their opposition
and then you have won. If you just go to those homes which welcome you,
that is the wrong path. You must go where people persecute you and tame
them with the power of love.
Each couple, a man and woman, has 360 homes apiece, which totals 720,
a multiple of seventy-two. The worldwide level is represented by seventy.
The dispensation in Jesus' time was on the national level, but at this
time of the Second Advent, it is on the level of the world. Husband and
wife have this job to do. If you are worrying about supporting your family,
this is the way.
Every dispensational number is contained within 360 - three, twelve,
seventy-two, and 120. Of course, if you really don't want to do it, then
it's up to you. But if you know the truth and you know that the truth shall
make your free, then you will want to act. You have that freedom.
I want you to understand that you are able to move forward to the Blessing
because you are superior to Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden. Your inheritance
is superior to that of Jesus Christ's of 2,000 years ago. Your inheritance
is from the True Parents on the worldwide level; therefore, you can begin
your own tribe in the home church. Even Jesus couldn't do that because
he didn't have the foundation of True Parents. So your first great privilege
is to have the True Parents.
Your second privilege is that you are ready to inherit the base of
the tribe, nation, and world, as well as the ideal of the Heavenly Kingdom.
This inheritance is something that even Jesus did not have. Furthermore,
the time of persecution will soon be over, particularly once the legal
battle is finished.
Don't you think that I will win over all the persecution within my
own lifetime? America and the free world are beginning to feel that they
have been too cruel to Reverend Moon; their original minds are beginning
to prick them. One side benefit of the recent court appearance was the
headlines in the major papers: "Reverend Moon Met Jesus, Buddha, and Moses."
That clearly shows that Reverend Moon keeps good company! This particular
publicity is showing people that Reverend Moon has the capacity to unite
the different religions. Perhaps someone would say, "I think Reverend Moon
was lying about meeting those people," and you can say, "Not at all That
was his sworn testimony under oath!"
Now the Jewish people, the Christians and the Buddhists of the world
have to look at Reverend Moon differently. The other day, a couple of Moslem
believers came to the Church headquarters and asked, "Did Reverend Moon
meet Mohammed, too?" When they heard that he had, they were very comforted.
This is amazing testimony which gives us great joy. But I want you to realize
that this is also very serious testimony; it is upon a long and serious
background that these kinds of things can be said.
We have initiated many different activities, such as the Religious
Congress, the Professors World Peace Academy, the Science Conference, the
Minority Alliance International. All these things are happening; they are
beyond the realm of thought.
Our topic today has been Analysis of the Present Time and the Blessing.
Our basic conclusion is that without accomplishing in home church, everything
else you do win be in vain. Even after my life on earth is finished, you
can continue to be successful and accomplish in your home church base.
Eventually our ideology, centered upon God's true love, will be the power
that unites the world.
The forthcoming Blessing has this great significance. You are going
to inherit the dignity and authority of Adam and Eve. I am giving you that
position, so you must be worthy of receiving it. You cannot go to Heaven
alone; you must have your mate. Husband and wife represent two legs walking
together toward the Kingdom of Heaven. You must be well-balanced so that
you can walk smoothly. If something is wrong with your marriage, and you
are not realizing this ideal within your home, you will be like a cripple;
you will not be able to move forward. That will also bring shame to your
posterity.
All this is what we call the Blessing. What more could you want? You
can own everything by going this way. You win possess Heaven and earth,
the True Parents, their inheritance, true love-everything. There is no
better word than "Blessing" to describe this. The day of Blessing is the
day when your entire self becomes expanded-your eyes should open wide.
What will you see? You will see love.
Even your nose will jump with the joy of love. For the first time,
you will be able to experience the world of the opposite sex-the sounds,
the smells, the sights. You will be supersensitive, emotional and joyful
on that day. You must appreciate and be grateful to each other, saying,
"Because of you, this Blessing has come to me." When you do your three
cheers of Mansei, it should be extraordinary. You should jump about six
feet in joy. If we blow the roof off Madison Square Garden with our cheers,
that's OK, too.
That exciting and glorious day of July I causes your heart to beat
faster just to think of it. Perhaps you are panting in ,anticipation. Are
you that excited? If you don't feel excited, you should move out! You women,
no matter how ugly your husband may be, he is still a man, that's for sure.
I can guarantee you at least that one thing-women will get men and men
will get women!
What could you women want more than a man, anyway? He can love you,
he can kiss you, he can talk to you. Furthermore, he will not be a fake.
I have given you a man of genuine breed. Do you think the ideal couple
must be good-looking? How about a rough-looking man and a homely woman?
Which would be more likely to be genuine? The more beautiful-looking person
will probably be more bland and boring, less genuine.
Don't be too worried or serious about the coming of July 1. Rather,
you should be joyful and think about my words. Just be serious within the
context of the truth.
Can you find anyone in the rest of the world who lives according to
this philosophy? Only within our movement can you find people of such value.
No matter how much money they might have, how good-looking they may be,
or how much education they may have, others do not have this philosophy.
If you women marry good-looking men from the secular world, they might
take everything from you and eventually run away. But these ugly men here-they
win give everything to you. They could cut off their own noses, arms, even
their hearts to give to you.
You can make your own analysis and it would have to agree with mine-Moonies
have to marry Moonies, period. There are two kinds of people-superior and
inferior. What is the standard to determine this? The secular world judges
according to external standards such as appearance and money, but we decide
according to internal standards and values. Thus a person may not have
a perfect appearance but his value will continue to grow.
Put yourself in God's position. He might observe one unattractive-looking
couple who are loving each other and creating beautiful harmony. Then,
another couple might be very superior-looking and also making beautiful
harmony. Where would God's heart be more drawn? Toward the less attractive
couple. He would give that couple some great bonus-perhaps He would give
them superior sons and daughters. God wants to give the child that most
resembles Him to that kind of couple, not to those couples who spend hours
on their appearance. God loves those people who love one another unselfishly
and without thinking of themselves.
That is the standard I look for when I think of choosing my sons-and
daughters-in-law. I want to find truly genuine and trustworthy people.
I can predict this: most good looking couples will fight more, while the
less attractive couples will not fight so much because they tend to be
more humble. Good-looking people can more easily become very stubborn and
arrogant. Those who are focused on their good appearance cannot be completely
trustworthy and will always have more room for selfishness to creep in.
But unassuming, less attractive people rely more upon their hearts, not
their looks. Good-looking couples in the secular world will divorce more
often because they are restless.
How dramatic it is when a man who is sought after by lots of women
marries a humble, lowly person, and loves her more than anybody else under
the sun. That is the number one couple in the sight of God. That kind of
dramatic couple would not be created, normally, out of a handsome man and
a beautiful woman, but from a handsome man and an ugly woman, or vice-versa.
However, I did not match you according to those categories. I matched you
according to superior standards.
You tend to look at your marriage as just "yours;' and only related
to your own personal future, but I look at marriage as, first of all, an
offering to God and an offering to the world. Marriage is the most sacred
offering we can make on the altar of God.
Do you have any complaints? You really are glad to obey God's direction?
That means I gave you a good sermon this morning! Those who say, "Father,
I will become the ideal spouse," please raise your hands. Thank you.
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