ORDER NUMBER
92-03-15
REVEREND SUN MYUNG MOON
SPEAKS ON
THE JOINING OF HEAVEN,
EARTH AND MAN
March 15, 1992
Belvedere, New York
Translator - Sang Kil Han
Chun Ji In Hop Tauk is the topic of Father's sermon this morning.
Hop tauk means joining; but joining in completion, for glory, for
success, for everything positive and good. It is like the joining of heaven,
earth and man. When you hear "the whole universe" you see the
subject position buoyed up. In this character you can see that neither
heaven or earth, but man is at the center of the joining. This character
means joining in True Love or oneness. This hop tauk which has the
special meaning of joining is a standard word. If you look in the dictionary
you will find it. The universe should be one; in the position of centering
on man, everything is united. Everything should go with that unity.
[Father writes on the board.] This is the only way you can write the
word "heaven." The only word which connotes heaven is made of
two men. Two men completely united means heaven. This is the only way we
write "earth." You see there is a joining between vertical and
horizontal in the lines that make up this character. That is man's mind
and body.
Look at the word for "join." It is made up of man and mouth
and the two become one. That means every mouth becomes one which means
they are in complete unity. In this Chinese character we see the thought
or concept of unification is very much pronounced. There is only one language,
not two languages. Truth is one; we all talk one content, never two contents.
Tauk means benevolence. These words show two men must be completely
united into one. This is mind. All minds become one standing on the four
position foundation, also four directions. A man should stand on top of
that so this means the completion of a man. This is more than fantastic.
We have been using these words thousands of years. So tauk has all the
elements: the unified mind which radiates in all four directions (not just
one) and two such perfect men with mind and body, both horizontal and vertical,
must join. All of this meaning is in one word. Two men means man and woman.
Like everything else it shows the pair system.
The West is horizontal so you write from left to right whereas Oriental
is vertical and we write from up to down. Women like a variety of colors
because they represent the earth. So all the color we find in nature can
be found in the clothes that women wear. Whereas men, with just a single
color represent the vertical aspect. The West comes in search from left
to right, whereas the East looks from up to down; from heaven in pursuit
of earth. Eventually they become one. You see how different the language
is between East and West, not only symbolically in letters like A, B, C
and D, but also the actual meaning of each word. In the Oriental language
you can find meaning in the way each character is written. It is not an
accident that the deep religions started in the East and not the West.
Now there is great research and debate going on between scholars of both
the East and West about the beginnings of the Chinese characters. We call
them Chinese characters but actually they are Oriental characters. Now
there is a consensus that perhaps their use began with the Dong Eui
race which was the ancient name for the Korean race. The very race
that exerted great influence over all the Eastern area, not only the continent,
but also the peninsula must have been the Dong Eui race which is
now the Korean race. So China was influenced by the Korean race.
Dong Eui means Eastern Archer. At that time the skill of archery
was most respected. Even now we have archery events in Olympic competition,
don't we? The Dong Eui race means the Eastern race which is good in archery.
You need mind and body unity to do well in archery. Shooting either a rifle
or bow and arrow demands a great degree of unification between mind and
body, especially spiritual concentration. That means you have to get set
and never move. If you move, you miss the target. Isn't it interesting?
Nothing is ever an accident. It is not an accident that Reverend Moon comes
from this culture and this country and background.
When the Unification Church started nobody knew or realized what was
happening. From the personal, individual position all the way to the world
position, the Unification Church was denied. The whole world came against
it. A person who is called Reverend Moon emerged as small but kept developing
toward the world, not by being welcomed but by being opposed. He has ever
become a victor, first on the individual level, then the family level,
clan, race, the nation, the world, the spirit world, the universal level,
even to the level of God. Are there many people who do not know about the
existence of Reverend Moon? [No.] Perhaps no one in his own generation
has had his name known as widely as Reverend Moon today. Perhaps with understandable
reason: he gathered all the people, all the leaders and presidents, premieres
and made a conference. You just cannot miss that name. There was always
a wall to go over to a different level; a deep and very big wall. You have
to take the wall down. Everyone tried to stop his coming into their realm,
but Father always went over and was always successful in bringing the wall
down.
Take America, for instance; you can look at the situation and be the
judge. Is America still in the position of being able to stop Reverend
Moon, drawing a line here and saying, "This is your domain maybe,
but this is ours and you cannot come in"? Can America do that? The
world has come to such a position where they cannot do that. Everything
is now free. As recently as a few weeks ago, there was an effort to belittle
and block Reverend Moon's achievements. But they got a reverse attack.
Through that negative report on PBS, everyone understood that Reverend
Moon is right! It's strange. They wanted to push Reverend Moon back, but
somehow they found themselves being pushed. It is a strange phenomena.
What about Russia? Historically, with it's well armed wall of communism,
Russia too, tried to push Reverend Moon away, but it was they who crumbled.
The world knows. What about Kim Il Sung who practices the most formidable
type of atheistic communism? North Korea too has now opened up. Some Americans
do not know who the president of the United States is, but there is no
one who doesn't know who Reverend Moon is or who hasn't heard his name.
The president of the United States changes every four years, but Reverend
Moon's name and what he does never changes. As you see, every level tried
to push Reverend Moon back, but quite to the contrary of what they hoped
for, they are being driven by Reverend Moon's thought into one direction.
Not many different directions, but one direction.
Until now the Japanese stopped Reverend Moon from coming into their
country. But now Japan is changing too. The internal affairs and foreign
affairs ministry met together and decided there was no way they could keep
Reverend Moon out. They decided they would be called a "barbarian
nation" for being the only country in the world to keep Reverend Moon
out. Why is that? China opened up, Russia, even North Korea opened up,
so Japan has no reason not to open up. So they simply agreed and as of
the 26th of March they have lifted the ban against Reverend Moon coming
into their country.
Does the 10th of April, 1992 mean anything to you? What day is it? It
is the day of the women's conference and rally in Korea. It is a world
level event. Centering on Mother and representing all womanhood, both Korean
and Japanese women will gather together along with world wide participants
in the women's conference. This is the first time in history such an event
is taking place. We know the number 144,000 from the Bible. Will the 144,000
be represented only by Christians? Let's look at it this way. Christianity
is a bride religion. The bride, by spreading out world wide, is anxious
to receive the bridegroom. A crowd of 144,000 will be lifted up centering
on the bride groom in the time of the second advent. Will that 144,000
be men or women? Brides or grooms? [Brides.]
This date is also significant as it represents Mother's 33rd anniversary
of marriage. This period rectifies the regret of Jesus who was crucified
at the age of thirty three. This event will indemnify Jesus' regret and
symbolically rectify what he could not do. It has that meaning too. The
brides will gather together and proclaim that from now on we are entering
the realm of heaven. When all the brides gather together, who are they
waiting for? The bridegroom. "Groom" sounds like the word for
cloud in Korean. So the cloud of the bride is waiting for the bridegroom.
In Korea a strong spiritual faction says that in October of this year,
the Lord will come again. Well, he's already done everything! Everything
is done and they are still waiting for somebody to descend from heaven.
The party is already finished! None of these things have happened by accident.
We know that these things have been predicted, not only predicted but worked
for and sure enough, they are now coming to pass. Therefore, this is an
amazing moment in the history of the dispensation. Because of this foundation
we can say the joining or hop tauk is taking place. You must remember there
is no word in English to express this meaning.
Chekim bun dom is also a very important concept. It means our portion
of responsibility. Chekim bun dom means the joining of the direct dominion
and indirect dominion. Man representing heaven and woman representing earth
each fulfills their share of responsibility and comes to join centering
on what? True Love, but True Love with what? Their fingers? No, through
man and woman becoming one. When a man and woman join in the act of love,
should the man be above or the woman? The man is, he has the action of
planting. The woman is in the position of earth and receiving. What do
you plant? Seeds, but what kind of seeds? Children. Children represent
the whole world starting from the individual. So you carry out the planting
of the world so to speak.
A child represents the individual, but as children grow older they become
a family. They will expand into a clan, then a nation and then the whole
world. So Adam and Eve, God's children themselves, were individuals but
at the same time, they were the world. The cosmic world at that. Who gave
birth to Adam and Eve? God did. The birth of Adam and Eve or individuals
is the birth of the world, isn't it? They are directly connected. You have
children for the purpose of making the universe. Isn't that true? Any woman
who gave birth to a child is aware and humbled and proud (all at the same
time) thinking, "I have just given birth to a cosmic world."
Was it easy to give birth to a world? It is that significant and that difficult.
Have you ever imagined this kind of couple? They were having a very holy
night in which the man was proud, thinking "I am about to plant a
world, not just a child or individual. To give birth to a nation, or to
revive a nation, we give birth to a child. Not just any child or any being,
but the whole universe is what I am about to create." When we come
to think about it from this light, we might wonder what is the greatest
thing among human beings. What organ does the greatest task? Of course
the answer is the reproductive organ. We come to this conclusion, but only
because of this reason.
Who was the first president of the United States? George Washington.
Can you compare the virtue or result of what George Washington did for
this world to what a man and woman can do for this world? Already we can
see the magnitude of what a man and woman can create. For the first time
you can see it correctly.
Women give birth to the universe and there is no greater service anyone
can perform, ever. It becomes a serious question for a woman who never
gave birth to a child or a man who has never fathered a child. Do they
have anything to be proud of? How could they possibly be more proud of
anything else? As a woman conceives a child and the child grows within
her, she is conscious that the universe is growing in her womb. Would you
ever be willing to trade your child for the universe? Even if someone offered
you the universe you would not let your child go. That is precisely how
a woman feels. Everybody is ignorant, but let's give an example of an extreme
case. In the West, American woman tie a leash around the child to keep
it close. It is very practical but . . . Even that woman would not trade
her child for the universe, let alone a woman with original love. Do you
have any different opinion or know of any exception? We already gave the
worst example. Why can we not trade? Already there are many invisible ties
connecting the child to different parts of the universe. In every conceivable
way, that tie is there. Would you ever trade your husband or your wife
for the huge universe? [No.] Why not? We must understand True Love is the
source of everything. It is what everybody wants to connect to. It's what
everybody is always thinking of.
In the Bible it is written that a child is that precious, but we never
knew why. This is the reason why: if a child is to be traded with anything
valuable, even the universe, then True Love loses its importance. As it
is, you cannot do that. Another example of why it is so important: there
are some women in America who boast, "I don't need a man. I am quite
self-sufficient and I am happy." But think about that same American
woman if there were no men on earth. Would she say, "I don't need
any man"? America has a population of 240 million, approximately half
of that number is men. Imagine no men, only 120 million women in this country.
What if they found only one man? Think about it! How fierce a competition
there would be for that man. Any living healthy woman would join in that
war. Would even the proudest American woman join in that competition? This
is a serious question! We already know in principle how important it is
for man and woman to unite. Would you join in even bloody competition to
the death? Father knows all of you would at least try to give your life
for it. If you already gave up and didn't even join in because there is
too much competition, you would not be worthy of being called the name
woman. That kind of person is not even worthy of being given the name of
an animal. She is maybe a little less than an insect. Do you think insects
would fight for it? Definitely they would. If there is any type of garbage
or drop out that you give the worst name, it wouldn't be bad enough for
that kind of woman.
What is the value of being the top queen in a world where there is no
men? Would you like that? Maybe it's heaven in one sense, but in the other
sense, it would downright be hell; the world without men, without your
husband that is. Do you mean that? How precious the presence of that one
man would be. This wouldn't be just some man who came down from a tree,
but the man that you fought for and won, even over fierce competition.
If you are living with that man, would you serve him and carry him on your
back or would you put a leash on him and pull him around? It is very serious.
No matter how beautiful you may be, you may be Miss Universe, but if you
are living in a world without men, it would be like the dungeon of hell.
So if someone asks you the question, "What is heaven for women?",
you should not wait but immediately answer, "Man!" What do you
American women think now? Five minutes can make a lot of difference. What
is your answer? What is your heaven? Do you think, "I am number one.
I am the Queen in my family." Can you say that? Instead you will say
man is number one, won't you? It's true. It is the same thing for men.
Men cannot imagine a world without women. How about Father? Father is great
in many ways, we know that. But without Mother would he be anything? Because
Mother is right there, Father can laugh. Father's eyes can laugh, Father's
nose can laugh, Father's mouth can join in laughing. If she was not here,
there would be no laughter. Wherever she is, is my heaven. Without her,
all is hell. Do you like hell? Why do you think Father is mentioning this?
It is so important that you cannot just pass by this point. The fact that
one woman met a man and likewise, man met woman, is not just a small happening.
It is a universal happening. You have to understand that concept. It is
the most important one. Especially American women. The concept of free
sex is so destructive and dark. You must fight every inch of the way and
become victorious, become a victor. That is the way each man and woman
must go. Instead of pursuing that goal, if you enter into free sex it is
very valueless. It will take you down to hell, nothing else.
In the light of Divine Principle we cannot imagine going that way. Think
about it. All men, since the time of their conception, absorbed all the
core elements of manhood or the masculine part of the universe. Likewise,
women absorbed the feminine part of the universe. Such a perfected man
and woman would join together. When they are joined together, God pulls
the string of these two and all the elements of the universe are connected
to them. Think about that. You must understand; they didn't just meet.
He had to survive up to that level and she had to survive up to that level
victoriously. Then they could meet. It is in yeon ; the result of cause
and effect in a universal degree, not just a small happening.
In English we say True Parents, but in Korean there is no such word
as parents. We say father and mother. Parents is said "father and
mother": pu mo. When we say pu mo, who is first, father or mother?
Father is always first. What do women say when they talk about their parents?
Do you say father and mother too, or do you say it backwards? Women say
it the same too. If you always place your father first and mother second,
how can man and woman ever be equal? You are always discriminating by putting
someone first and someone second. Isn't that appropriate though, because
women are always smaller and less strong. Men are always bigger and stronger.
No record shows any woman winning over men in the Olympic championships.
So when do men and women come into unity and become equal? Should you
wait for few million more years to become equal? [No, in True Love.] Now
Father is really perplexed. This brother gave a true answer, but does he
know what he is talking about? Yes, it is True Love. Centering on True
Love, men and women are absolutely equal. We know that. But without True
Love they are no longer equal, men are always in a superior position to
women.
Let's imagine True Love has eyes. [Father draws a very funny picture
of True Love's face.] This is a picture of True Love. Does True Love want
to have two eyes like we do, or since he has everything, would he be satisfied
with just one eye? He wants to have two eyes, but does he want two eyes
of woman, two eyes of man or one eye of a man and one of a woman? One of
each? That means half of a woman wants to be conquered by a man and half
of a man wants to be conquered by woman. That means only True Love can
occupy both the world of man and woman. Once you exchange your eye with
that of man, you cannot change it back later. What Father is pointing out
to us is this; half of you is no longer yours. It already belongs to your
spouse. Is man everything or is woman everything or are man and woman together
everything? Together they are everything. Do you still want to be conscious
of the woman's world and your position first or do you want to put togetherness
first?
There are five billion people in the world's population. Let's say all
the women, beautiful women are gathered together here. What if the one,
most handsome man on earth walks by them? Would they turn their eyes to
see him? Here is a small man and here are five billion beautiful women.
Everyone focuses on him with all their nerves. All their eyes are looking
at him. What makes each woman do that? Is it they themselves that decide
to do that or is it True Love which exists in women that is making them
do that? Would it just be transmitted this way or would it go back to the
root, be confirmed and then bring about action? What do you think? it would
go back to the root, it is genuine, unmistakable, it's true. It is the
power of original, True Love.
Father just made an example of a so called handsome man, but of course,
the definition of a handsome man is elusive. You could say a handsome man
is the one with better proportion in the way his eyes and ears and muscles
are situated. But all kinds of love exists in a truly handsome man. He
is perfect and worthy, not only in this one kind of love, but all love
exists within him. A more perfect love makes the man more perfect doesn't
it? He is a more handsome man then. It is not just the face we are talking
about, it is the heart. Here again, is a very important conclusion. You
usually look at men, and men look at women and decide whether they are
beautiful or handsome. But this is so misleading. Have you ever started
looking from his heart or her heart? She may look very beautiful outside,
but she may not be beautiful inside. Have you ever thought this way? How
did you decide who was a handsome man?
Where did this finest, handsome man start from? You have to go back
through history and look. Where did that handsome man begin? Who is the
ancestor of that handsome man and beautiful woman? To whom can you trace
that trait back? God, our Heavenly Father. He is the owner and teacher
of number one rank. The root of that beauty is God. But what about just
the face? Someone who doesn't have that history may look like a handsome
man, but the man who has true handsomeness will be pursued by all women
who want to compete to occupy him.
What if God Himself appears as the most handsome parents? Of course,
God cannot exist physically because everyone would try to connect with
Him. In other words, if God had form everybody would recognize His perfection.
There would be impossible chaos and no order would exist. Everyone would
know where God was and try to go to Him. God is so wise, He made a plan
that works: God made Himself invisible. He is there but He is not visible.
Instead, He gave half His attributes to men and half of His attributes
to women. And when True Love is stirred up, then something in man and woman
is stirred up too. They cannot help it. Then they come to meet. When they
meet together they burst into happiness. When you are in the apex of love,
you actually wouldn't mind if you died, would you?
Again, Father is trying very hard to teach us this point. The point
is that the things we cannot see are the most important things. It is not
what we see. For instance, we talk about love all the time. In a way you
can see it, but you can see it as clearly as you can see trees? Have you
ever seen love? Have you ever seen life? What about mind? We must understand
that the most precious and important things that dwell in mankind cannot
be seen. These three points that Father just mentioned are invisible but
they are most important.
It doesn't matter how beautiful a woman is, if she has more of these
three things; life, love and mind, God will surely reside with her. Likewise,
if you want to become a friend to God, someone God loves most, someone
who attracts a partner, what attributes should you have? You should have
these invisible qualities. Since they are invisible nobody will notice
you have them, but you will become diligent and accumulate more of these
invisible attributes throughout your life. Then God will visit you more
often.
Father is teaching us to have a generous or big mind, not a small mind.
Is your mind small or big? Have you ever seen your mind with your eyes?
The life force within you wants to go beyond any barrier in the universe.
You want to overcome the universe, don't you? Your life wants to expand
to all four corners of the universe and your love wants to embrace the
whole universe. One wants to expand and the other wants to embrace. Love
will want to embrace and squeeze so tightly that there is no core left.
Your front side will become your back side in that love motion. Sometimes
you cannot control the urge to squeeze your baby. Not only that, you sometimes
feel that way towards your husband too. You want to squeeze him tight,
don't you? Those who have life must develop. Those who have love must unify.
The purpose of love is to unify and life is to expand.
Man and woman are quite different aren't they? Quite different or absolutely
different? Absolutely different! Women are always looking at the earth
as they move around. Men will look to heaven. Women wonder, "What
is he looking for? What can he find up there?" But if he doesn't look
up, he loses the center. That means you too will lose the center. Women
can only enjoy their freedom when revolving around their husband. Without
her husband a woman cannot be secure. Nobody will believe in her. You must
maintain not only horizontal relations, but vertical relations as well.
In the value perspective, do most American men like and love American
women, or not? Are they satisfied with the way American women are? [No.]
To a great extent it is true the other way around also. Are you American
women perfectly satisfied with the way American men are? [No.] Men should
be masculine and women should be feminine, not the other way around. Do
you like to see men act like women and women act like men? [No!] Is that
"no" your awareness from this moment, or is that how people have
felt historically? At any time in history, anybody would answer in the
same way. If you saw a man making up his mouth like a woman and he had
a manicure just like a woman, you would rather die than live with him or
sit right beside him. We would really hate him. Even if there is another
man who is very ugly, but he is masculine to the same extent as his ugliness,
you would much prefer him. [Yes!]
Which do you prefer? The man or woman who speaks a lot of words or the
one of few words? Or does it depend on what he says? Father is speaking
generally. Do you like talkative or silent people? In the Orient there
are many statues of Buddha. Does Buddha's statue ever say a word? He never
speaks a word; he neither praises you or chastises you. You never know
what he is thinking. Yet, he is very great and everybody comes to worship
him. Also, he is always looking at one focal point; he never looks around
like we do. We don't know what he looks for but he does look for something.
Do you understand? That is all we want to do; look at one thing. The best
solution in the most complicated situation is silence. Don't say anything.
That is the best way. When something happens women jump around, but a man
will sit even more still. He doesn't say anything, he might not even open
his eyes. He just sits still, but Father says that is a very wonderful
thing. Because he never knows which is going to begin, a sad thing or a
happy thing, he is in anticipation. But because he doesn't know he is very
still. He is trying not to miss the sign of what is to come.
If ten women gather together we can imagine how much they will talk.
But if among them there is one woman who does not utter a word, she will
eventually become the center of those ten women. The other nine women will
pay attention to her. If she does not speak for ten years, everyone will
wonder what her opinion is and what she is thinking. If she stays silent
for one hundred years, then for that one hundred years everyone must pay
attention to her to find out what she is thinking.
When Westerners meet together there tends to be more talk than when
Oriental people gather. In the diplomatic arena who is eventually the winner;
the one who speaks little or the one who speaks much? The one who stays
silent is more likely to become a judge. We can see that in the courtroom
too. Each attorney talks so much. The judge says nothing but he has the
final word. It is the same thing, we have to understand silence. This is
how God conducted Himself. For so many years God hardly spoke. We see so
much commotion between the existing churches and Father and the Unification
Church. Most of the noise has been the Christian church criticizing the
Unification Church. They have been saying all kinds of things about Father.
But Reverend Moon was silent, almost never speaking against others except
when it was absolutely necessary. Which do you think is wiser?
Among those in society, if one person kept silent for ten years, his
words would become that much more trustworthy when he did speak. Once he
speaks everybody listens and trusts him. If we speak a lot we may have
a lot of outer form, but inside you lose everything. You don't have anything
inside. We see this rule very clearly now. But, if you are going to speak
for the sake of the whole and you know you are right and that your speech
will help others, then it is more helpful to talk more. Many people will
question you, "Do you practice what you are saying?" So, how
can any person afford to say much? The one who likes to boast about himself,
generally ends up creating something with his words which he doesn't even
have. Isn't that true? He never stops boasting at the limit of what he
has. The one who boasts gradually expands and expands and creates an imaginary
thing that he is talking about. Eventually his talk becomes false. So we
see a general tendency; the one who is more silent is better connected
to the truth side. As much as he speaks more than necessary, he is that
much connected to that which is false. What should be your rule of thumb;
to speak more or less? [Less.]
So in the family, does the man or woman tend to speak more? [Woman.]
In a company, the one who keeps silent and always works will be thought
of as the owner by others. Even to the extent that we know this already,
isn't it true that Western people propagandize? They advertise themselves
and think it is a virtue. It is the other way around with Orientals. They
hide themselves knowing that other people will discover them. This is a
funny example, but there is some truth in it. In the last twenty or thirty
years the Japanese have toured everywhere around the world. They never
spoke, not a word, not because they couldn't, they just didn't. But, they
took a lot of pictures didn't they? Today people wonder how did Japan go
up so high? While they were taking a lot of pictures nobody realized what
they were doing. Everybody knows the West is the inventor and Japan is
the copier. They have become not just copiers but masters and the legitimate
owner now. Now Americans jump up and down and say they don't like Japan,
but what can they do? Not much. Here, we see two different lifestyles;
one was proud and boasting, the other was rather humble and didn't say
much. That can change position so greatly. Again, it testifies that silence
is really a virtue. The person who looks like this [the funny picture of
True Love] will be a wealthy person in the future. The person who enjoys
a lot of blessing will look like this. Take a good look before Father erases
it.
Now we know one great realization both by reason and by heart: what
is most important for women is not money, or prestige, or even beauty.
And the same is true the other way around; what a man needs most is not
fame or anything like that. Women are what men want and men are the most
important thing to women. Your value as a woman can never be determined
by yourself. Father is again emphasizing this point. Your value is decided
through your spouse. A man will decide your value. And a man's value is
also decided by woman, not by the man himself. It becomes exchangeable
centered on love.
What is the human purpose? There are two; for woman, it's man and for
man, it's woman. We are born, not for ourselves, but for each other. Centering
on what? True Love. That is core love, the essence of love. We have to
understand love more deeply. Before I even came to exist, before my life
began, love existed and was the originator. Because of love my life began.
The concept of love is made up of a plus side which is man and a minus
portion which is woman. Originally there was an invisible concept of love
such as this. [Father draws a diagram on the board.] The positive and negative
aspects were deployed separately so the positive portion constitutes the
vertical existence and the minus portion constitutes the horizontal existence.
Where does love meet in this concept? The only conceivable place we can
imagine it, is that love can only take place in the vertical relationship.
When a child is born he looks towards this point within man and woman.
There are different levels. Both plus and minus go through different steps
to reach the same horizontal level which intersects the vertical line.
Often a man grows up beyond that horizontal line, but he can no longer
see ahead so he realizes, "This is the point where I am supposed to
be" and he goes back to the horizontal line. Then he starts looking
toward the center and so does the woman from her side. Where do they meet?
Right at the center. There are no two planes, only this one horizontal
line and this place is the only place they will meet. Each one will know
where to meet.
Here, he is the fruit of the great, invisible element of plus. And she
is the fruit of the minus. [Father draws a big circle around the four position
shaped diagram.] If you make a big sphere like this, of course, the upper
half is apt to be the invisible side and lower half is visible. This is
like our world and like our mind and body. Mind is the vertical, invisible
me and our body is the visible me. We eventually become the responsible
person of two different worlds; invisible and visible. Above is heaven
and below is earth. Man is above, woman is below and this point is the
point of a great joining. Like Father has explained to us thousands of
times, if you take this segment here it will fit anywhere. It is interchangeable.
Do you understand? It is the ideal point of settlement. This is the total
destination for love between parents and children, children's love to parents
and spousal love. In a father-son relationship, this is plural. The single
will never reach to perfection. Right here for the first time two will
be joined and become plural. Heaven, earth and man are clearly separate,
but they are about to meet. Where? Right here.
So as a man treads this course he finds out all about the earth, science
and the law. Women, too. But eventually, they know their destination is
to meet each other. When the two meet here the motion centered on True
Love begins. This concept is denoted in Divine Principle as our area of
five percent responsibility. We know we began from here and our portion
of responsibility depends on reaching that point. This is the ideal settlement
point as Father already said. It is not money, it is not position or your
influence which matters. What matters most is True Love; real love towards
each other and towards your parents and towards your children. God too,
has dual characteristics, like two seeds in one hull. All seeds are like
this [with a plus side and a minus side] without exception. You can't find
one which is not this way. No matter how big or small a seed you may find,
if you break it open you will find this is true. Can you exchange that
at will? In other words can you take another seed and make one seed from
two pluses? You cannot do that. When they are in love, you cannot replace
any one of these. There are two in one hull. Isn't that true? If one side
is eliminated, the whole thing will be destroyed. This relationship is
eternal. This is the law of God's creation. God's world operates under
this law. Nothing can change it.
Husband and wife together are like the fruit of God. Free sex is like
changing around that combination. When you plant that distorted seed will
it bring forth any significant being? No, free sex is the end of that generation.
AIDS is the actual result. What do people with AIDS deserve now? Of course,
being eradicated and erased. How can you tell who is infected with AIDS
when you select your spouse? That kind of illness is now rampant. You could
not consider lesbians and homosexuals as candidates for your spouse. Anyway,
those who are afflicted will be destroyed. Since we cannot afford to wait
until every one is destroyed or infected, Father gave the Washington Times
a suggestion to promote the marking AIDS patients. For example, they would
have to wear a red hat. But let them identify themselves so that people
can defend themselves. Who gets the dishonor as the ancestral country of
AIDS? Is it Korea or America? America must be aware of this. If America
cannot take care of this problem by itself, then someone like Reverend
Moon has to solve this problem, not only for this country but for the world
as well. Who caused this deviation from the holy position to this lowly,
lowly position? It was not God, but Satan.
Laughter and happiness can only start and rest at this center point.
God can laugh here, all of us can laugh here. Unless we reach this point
there is no laughter and no happiness. A mother is the object of laughter.
In other words, one can laugh because of her. A husband can laugh because
of his wife and the children, the whole neighborhood and country can laugh,
because of her presence. Who should laugh the most? What man enjoys most
to behold is a woman who laughs. Do you know why God did not give women
a beard? The most sensitive change in laughing starts around the mouth.
If a woman's mouth was covered by a beard, you would never know when she
smiled. A man will look at her mouth when she says, "Welcome, please
come in." Look around and observe if this is true. Woman start saying
something from their mouth, then it radiates here and the wrinkles start-good
wrinkles, not bad wrinkles.
Why do men like to kiss women? Because the mouth is the object of laughter.
He wants a taste of that. American men and American women like to kiss
and be kissed. In the East, it is not so true. Why do women have a smaller
face than men? Because you can comprehend a smaller face easily. The smaller
the face, the more desirable it is. You can comprehend everything in a
very short time. When women laugh, their attractive laughter begins with
the shrinking of the mouth. Whereas, it is more likely that the laughter
of a man begins with him opening his mouth. Also, have you noticed that
woman move down as they laugh whereas men move their heads up and back.
Now you know one reason why women don't have a beard; so you can show your
mouth which changes sensitively when you start laughing. A beard can shake
so you know when a man is laughing. Father feels he deserves at least an
eighty percent mark, if not more for his explanation of why women don't
have beards.
When women sit in front of the makeup mirror, what area do they concentrate
on? Two places, their mouth and their eyes. Why? Because the mouth is where
laughter starts and the eyes are the signal of everything. Sometimes women
have very long fingernails and they paint them all kinds of colors. If
you are so full of True Love and in spite of yourself you do that, it is
fine. Father says it is not only forgivable, but it can be recognized.
If you want to magnify your expression of True Love in cooking and caressing
and doing such wonderful things with your hands, and in order to make that
accent you make your fingernails noticeable, then it is alright. But no
other reason is acceptable. What about the toenails? They don't do so much
so why should you give them the same treatment? Women who make up their
toenails are the worst kinds of women.
Which do you prefer, thin or thick lips on women? Father is not going
to tell you everything. That is up to you to research. Don't be lazy.
There are three very valuable things which you cannot see; life, love
and mind. What is the center of those three? Love. Your mind is so wide,
isn't it? If you have money your mind says, "Why don't you distribute
this money to all Americans?" So you give all your money to 240 million
Americans. Then your mind would say, "Why do you stop there? What
about the world?" So you start distributing money to all five billion
people. Then your mind would still say, "Didn't you forget about the
spirit world?" Your mind is like that. Your mind says, "Why did
you forget God? He is most important." You thought God was the richest
so you forgot. God is not greedy, but do you think He wants more than anybody
else? He does. God won't approve of us even if we give away all we can
see. Later on He will say to us, "Don't you have more to give?"
Then you start giving something you can't even see and nobody else can
see. Then God approves of you and says, "You are right." God
is the master of everything which is not visible. God will approve of the
man who gives the visible money and the invisible mind saying, "Yes,
that is the way to give."
When a wife gives a present to her husband, she not only gives a present,
but she also gives her mind. Then the gift is appreciated. If she just
gives what is visible, then the gift is not appreciated. Even though you
women know your husband loves you with his body, you want to know he loves
you with his mind as well. You always question, "Do you love me with
your mind also?" We must combine the visible and invisible love.
We have to turn our attention more to the invisible side. We already
know how to deal with the visible side. Now for the first time we understand
the things which have global value and we must advance to that. Why? Because
that is the way man is created. We have duality like God, there is visible
and invisible. From there, motion takes place. We say chung sung. Again
this chung sung is a key word in our life, but unfortunately there is no
equivalent in English. 'Heart' is as close as it can come; heart and mind
and effort, everything put together. We come to Belvedere in the morning
but not thoughtlessly. We don't just come, but rather we prepare for Father,
thinking about what he has gone through all his life. Think about what
you are here for. In a short time, in five or ten minutes give a run down
of all historical encounters and wait for Father with chung sung, with
heart. That invisible preparation makes the experience more valuable. Just
being present here is precious enough, but with the invisible chung sung
added to that, our being here becomes much more valuable.
A wife who is waiting for her husband to come back from work should
not just wait and then say hello. She should think about her husband all
day long, in many different ways. Then when they actually meet and face
each other glory will be added to that moment. Laughter and a little smile
will add to that. A laughing face has an attractive power to pull in your
husband.
Who is going to be the owner or center of the Unification Church? Not
the big husky man, but maybe the small woman who adds on more and more
invisible value. Day after day after day they accumulate that invisible
value and after some time even a small woman may become the center and
owner of the Unification Church. God as well as Parents will see her. Father
recognizes her coming to him, she doesn't look like just another face in
the crowd. Not only between husband and wife, but even a child who thinks
about his parents all the time will build a strong power between them.
Thinking about it is invisible. Everybody can make invisible power, no
problem. Everyone can do this and make this accumulation. We are free to
do this. Day and night we can gather this invisible accumulation. How wonderful
it is! If you pile it up like a high mountain, God will certainly notice
and look down and praise you for that.
Do you think Father's talk is true or not? As a man is working, he should
think about his wife and children and want them to be serving the whole
world. If they can do that this will become a true blessing point. If you
think deeply of your wife and children, they cannot leave you. They are
bound over and over by your force of love. You have captured them. Each
one of us wants to be captured. The whole world wants to be captured by
that kind of love. Isn't that true?
How precious it is for you to exert this invisible power. You are very
strong and capable of doing this. Think about your child and cry for your
child even while you cannot see them. Your heart will be transmitted to
them. God recognizes your invisible properties and attributes more because
that is what makes you like Him. The person who puts more emphasis on the
invisible things is followed by God. Is this happiness? That person who
is recognized by God is the happiest person. Everyone would say to that
person, "I respect you forever. I will follow you forever." Is
that true? Now you know well, more than me!
So we must understand that kind of person would be God's inseparable
object of love. God loves that kind of person the most; the one who lives
centered on this invisible world of love and the invisible world of life.
God will cherish that person the most. Do we all love Father? Why? He has
invisible love power, invisible life power and invisible mind power. God
loves that kind of person. Anyone with those qualities becomes God's partner
of love. God is the center of love. God loves the person with these invisible
attributes so automatically every human being likes that person too. Do
you understand? It is clear. You should always be accumulating invisible
properties. This is what a wise man does. A wise man will never perish.
Unchangeable happiness, freedom and peace can be found there, not in other
places. Let us accumulate these invisible properties and invisible wealth
so that we can shine out in the spirit world, not only here. In the spirit
world there are degrees. Some people stay higher and some people stay lower
depending on how much of these properties they have.
No one knows how many tears Father shed for this earth and for heaven.
When Father went to Danbury everyone cried, but Father knew his tears must
soak the other side of the prison wall; outside of Danbury. And that is
exactly what he did. Then what happened? All the prison inmates came to
him. They were so docile and gentle in front of Father, just like children
coming to their parents. Father didn't say anything to them, but his invisible
love was reaching out to them. When they were ready to leave the prison,
they would all come with a gift for Father. They would bring the best thing
they had possessed in prison life and leave it with Father saying, "Please
keep it." Father's life motto wherever he goes is "Leave behind
invisible accumulations."
When Father goes to Korea, America suddenly feels empty. Do you feel
that? Nobody tells us, but automatically, in spite of ourselves, our direction
leads us to face Father. Our body is limited, we can only do so much, but
our mind is limitless. There is hardly any limit to our hearts, we can
do so much. Our purpose in life is to accumulate the most while we are
alive. If we work without limitations, we can accumulate more love and
thrust more love into it and more thought. If a person lives like this
all his life then when he goes to the spirit world he dies while he is
standing or sitting or working. Because he lived a very normal life his
spirit can separate from his body easily and naturally. This is the good
way.
So, which is more important; what we can see or what we cannot see?
[What we cannot see.] That is the secret of Father's life and Reverend
Moon's teaching. If you give the enemy even a dot of True Love (not a big
painting of love), that dot will be strong enough to protect him from Satan's
pulling him away from you. A True Love dot cannot be occupied by Satan's
power.
Even though the world is so big, there is nothing we cannot know, even
in the invisible world. The whole thing must come into True Love, True
Life and True Mind. You can then embrace and unify with no problem. With
visible things you cannot do this, but by working with the invisible world
this can be achieved. People with invisible power can embrace everything
forever.
We know this joining takes place mostly with invisible elements. To
pray in an extremely complicated situation is a very valuable thing. It
is a very formidable thing too. Those who pour a lot of chung sung into
their lives are very formidable and fearful. That person can achieve miracles.
Whatever we can see that we achieved here is left behind when we go to
spirit world. There is not an iota of it that we can take. But from the
invisible things we build up, we take everything with us. Do you understand?
I want to become the owner of the invisible world. Do you understand clearly?
Father may not own so much property, but what Father has inside is greatest.
It is springtime now. Until now, Americans, by their culture and tradition
have been focused on the things they can see and achieve. From this point
on Americans will pay more attention to the invisible world. Their transition
of life toward true wealth will begin now, like springtime. They will become
more and more rich. American people will have a different attitude toward
the invisible world, otherwise there is no hope. America is now headed
down toward perishment, isn't it? How can we make a resurrection here?
There is only one way. All Americans must take the position of pursuing
the things of invisible value. In that way, a new America will be resurrected.
Is this clear? When America starts doing that, the whole Western world
will follow. Then the entire Western world will never perish.
Until now Father paved many roads, but he especially paved the road
for Mother. Father lifted Mother up and up and has now brought her to the
same degree as Father himself. Father has given hundreds and thousands
of hours of sermons. Mother doesn't have to repeat the thousands of hours
of sermons. If Mother gives an hour-long sermon three times, her position
will be the same as Father's position. Finally, a "Mansei" can
be shouted out in the world of womanhood. In Father's goal for perfection,
he always had Mother in mind representing perfection from the outside world.
Father's goal is to make the outside world perfect. The outside world is
the partner subject place for me. The inside viewpoint is that Mother is
one with me. The outside world is nearing completion in this time and inside,
Mother's completion has come. After that she is standing on the same level
as Father. Do you understand? From there, a new world is appearing. A new
turning point is coming. In that there is hope for all humankind. Do you
understand?
Let us pledge today ourselves that, "I will even ignore the visible
world for the value of the invisible world. From now on I will start building
up the accumulations of the invisible world and clearly change these attitudes
in my life as of today." Those who pledge this please raise your hands.
God bless you!